Title: help me
Description: need guy help bad
gerardsmyman - September 29, 2007 07:40 PM (GMT)
so theres this guy thats one of my internet friends but i dont really know him that well but i really like him. and i dont think he likes me. were both emo so if you dont understand what that is or how to deal with people like us then it might not help that much. but i dont know how to get him to like me PLEASE HELP!!!
dreamdancer7699 - September 29, 2007 10:07 PM (GMT)
I dont think you're really going to like my response, but I'm going to give it anyways because I have experience with these kinds of things. He's someone that you dont know in person, and you've only talked to on the computer. Therefore you dont know anything about him really and you shouldnt be focusing your attention and your heart on someone you dont know. I can certainly understand being lonely and wanting to reach out to a stranger who seems to be going through the same things as you and helps you feel better about yourself, but emotional involvment over the internet just leads to drama and heartbreak. :(
gerardsmyman - September 29, 2007 10:56 PM (GMT)
thanks but if i wouldve wanted to talk to my mom i wouldve asked her! jk but yeah i know it wont be real but i dont care he is just so perfect and i know he will lie to me ive already lied to him but i dont care i just want him
Sardine - December 15, 2007 09:21 PM (GMT)
I know this is old, but still.
I've made the mistake of liking someone that I only spoke to over the internet. Don't do it. Get to know the guy in person first. Trust me.
And trying to get someone to like you could be the worst thing you could do.
Good luck.
smc - December 22, 2007 05:56 PM (GMT)
I have to agree with the others too. I mean not only do you not know him it could be very dangerous. He could have lied also about every thing he has told you, including his identity if you don't know him in person. Plus, never change yourself for no one! You are perfect just the way YOU ARE. Just leave it as make believe love, that's my advice.Sry. :cookie:
Nakutro - December 22, 2007 08:47 PM (GMT)
ok i read somewhere that guys are from so all you need is red stone and it will all become clear that you really need to get out and meet people more trust me if he doesn't like you now he never will.......hands down thats it guys are the most noncomplex thing you will ever deal with in your life.