Basi may gusto dira mag share sa inyo ah kay ginabudlayan na gid ako ah! hehehehe!

:P

una ko nga masabat ah...

per experience, yes... one of the main factors, not only attainment but the competency within that attainment.... i used to think nga dapat pareho man sya thinking sa akun.... dapat technically capable man sya to talk with me and give insights and will understand kung what the heck i am talking about..... she must also be an engineer....she must have the capability to cmplete with me in some sense.....she must also know what do my facial expression means... she must be a good cook.....she must be knowledgeable enough to manage obstacles in life... she must me compatent to manage kids..... she must be competent to talk to my colleagues.... she must be presentable to my friends...she must be capable to fed and manage to have the kids grew up incase i will be gone earlier... she must.... etc etc etc etc etc....

but on the other hand naman.... would it matter if she is not what i want her to have/be and must kung palangga ko gid sya??? ......

its a question that i dont want to tell you mig kung anu ang dapat nga answer.... no right or wrong answers.... its just love.... kung love mo sya even wala sya katapus... go for it....

pero kung if you have both.... then its perfect....

:thumb: :naughty:

I used to envisioned a wife to be well educated could understand the ideals and the things i do.. she should communicate well and be able to easily adapt to circumstances, etc, etc etc.....

But maybe in the end we need someone who will be there for us, who will understand us, who will listen to us... who will truly love us...

preferrable but not required :D i think mas importante maging match ang personality nyo compared sa pataas-taas educational attainment, imho :)

Migo Mel..nabudlayan ka na gid?Nano na...amo na kagwapo sa imo kag kadiskartidor...hehehe!! :naughty: :naughty: :naughty:

but anyway migs...setting a qualities sa atun mangin
partner in a relationship is good! But sometimes, ang makita mo is opposite but naluyag ka sa iya...because if God gives this person to us,
we must admit and search the reasons ngaa sya ang ginhatag sang Ginoo sa atun... *hug

There's a purpose for everything happens in our life di bala...I don't believe that ang educational attainment is one of the hindrance sa pagpangita sang mangin partner....
Just ask the Lord migs ah with a pure heart and be specific sa atun mga prayers...if you ask a gwapa,maalam,good educational attainment,etc,fine! as long this qualities is fits for you....

I know you all believe in answered prayers....

The gospel according to Matthew in Chapter 7:7 Ask, and it shall be given you; seek, and you shall find; knock, and it shall be opened to you. :thumb: :thumb: :thumb: kuskus kuskus kuskus

Most of the time ginahatag man sang Ginoo ang parehas sa atun pag-intyinde ah!!
Amu nga gaworkout ang relasyun kay gaintyindihanay kamo nga duwa kag compatible gid kamo sa isa kag isa!! :thumb: :thumb:

for me its very important, it's something for our children to be proud of someday... another thing is that our parents worked so hard to give us the right education because for them it's the only fortune they can give us, something that no one could ever take away from us... having said that it's my belief that i should live and continue such thing, starting from having a partner that shares similar values in life... indeed there are some people who are unfortunate enough because of extreme poverty as a reason and it can be an exception but otherwise better find a new one... just a cent... :)

i have to revise and put in BOLD ang phrase which i think really matters... ;)

the best gid ang mga insightful views nyo mga migo.... :thumb:

i know that love is all that matters but at the back of my mind, there is always this thought of not settling for anything less than I deserve... perhaps it's because I have been setting high standards for myself, that is why I'm finding it hard...

i really want to believe that IT SHOULD NOT...

pero matyag ko, amo gid na ang rason ngaa ginbayaan ko sang una.... :((

no offense to anyone pero one of the natural characteristic of a Filipino is that we are IDEALISTIC... we always want and envision what is the ideal thing in life....

often times we forgot that ang DAPAT nga reason why naga court ka sa iya or sabtun mo sya is because PALANGGA MO SYA NO MATTER WHAT SHE/HE IS AND WHAT SHE HAS and not BECAUSE WHAT SHE/HE HAS AND WHAT SHE IS .... PERSONALLY I WOLD NOT ACCEPT THE REASON NGA SABTUN KO NA SYA BECAUSE IDEAL SYA... THATS A BIG BULL FOR ME..... --> JUST THINKING OUT LOUD... :lol: :lol: :lol:

ari lang akon amot migo Mel ho ah...

halin s friend ko nga na post ko na sa Quotes Collection..

plain and simple...

para sa akon, amo ni sya ang pinakauna nga pundasyon kung magtukod ka sang 1 ka pamilya nga ginatawag...\


= nakukuha ko naman lahat ng gusto ko
[13:34] joeyray143: wag ka lang maiinip....
= i mean, i dont really dream big

[13:34] joeyray143: ibibigay din NYA yun...
= simple lang naman tlaga gusto ko sa life
[13:34] joeyray143: kahit trisekel driver, okey na?
= although not as simple as plain
[13:34] joeyray143: hehehee
[13:34] joeyray143: sige. continue....
[13:34] joeyray143:
= sabi ko nga not as simple as plain eh
[13:34] joeyray143:
= tricycle driver tapos kamukha ni enrique iglesias...cge , kahit ako pa bumuhay
[13:35] joeyray143: hahaha!!!
[13:35] joeyray143: kala ko serious na eh..
= well...i want someone who can ride on with me

[13:35] joeyray143: hehehe
= i mean...
= i want to explore life with this man
=not just putting up the family
= but growing old gracefully with him
= i want to travel with this man
= i want someone who would consider me as his head also
= alam mo un
= basta, parang ive been with friends
= grow with them
= xplored with them
= and now, i wanted this man who would be my significant other
[13:36] joeyray143: im listening...
= someone i can go to church with
= to have same faith as mine
= who can be with me kahit minsan wala kaming pera pero masaya kami just sharing the moment
= na tipong may problem pero we can fix it

[13:38] joeyray143: nakakatoiuch naman yun mare....
= but simply...i still dont have it [/QUOTE]

pre... nadumduman ko ang utang ko sa imu nga isa ka barrel nga draft beer... :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:

mig.. pilia na lang kung sin-u ang palangga mo.... everything will be as easy as ABC dayun... :naughty: :thumb:

kung sa SEARCH for PARTNER in life YES,

kung sa SEARCH for LOVE, wala na sya ginapili.

somehow, educational attainment has an impact in searching for a partner. when we are talking of compatibility, mas ok gid man tood. kay para dali kamo mag intsindihanay kumbaga kon nasa the same frequency mas madali ang communication. For practical reasons, having a partner who has attained some level of educational degree syempre makabulig sa pamilya nyo financially kay maka pangita sya ya obra.

BUT, i would like to stress out that educational attainment is only one of the many factors in searching a partner. damo pa na nga paliwanawagan ah basta amo na ang sakon ya hehehe.

that's why some tech graduates pretend to be degree holders para lng matagaan sang pagtamod.... hayyyyyyyy....

:wtf

what more can i say????? agree gid eh....


but


theoritically, your partner in life must be also the one you love?... :thumb: :naughty:

daw ingi ko gets.... wahehehehehe

well matugda man ko ah.......budlay man kis-a parehas kamo knowledge ah...pirmi lang gabaisay...hehehe!!

tahum guro kung isa abi sa inyo engineering tapos ang partner nurse....

tried that....... didnt worked out..... (naks......daw pihu eh.....)



so far mas maayu kung duwa ka engr kay decisions are based on facts and data..... :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:

ah gali migs....ti masiling ta diri siguro..pangita na lang kamo parehas pag-intyinde sa inyu ah....

correct ka gid tan...pagduwa kamo eng'g...may plastaranay gid datas and facts....

we have tried na nga parehas kamo level of educational Attainment...it works out man...pero kung gusto nyo mas challenging..ti ngita kamo mataas sa inyu or iban ang pag-intyinde sa inyu ah!!

Subong nga tiniun atun pakabatunon nga mostly of girls ginapangita nila nga partners ang secured sila sa ila nga future.....mind over heart...hehehe!!pero tuod ina mga migs...

amu man siguro ang reason sang una nga ginbaylu nya ko sa manager...

waaaaa.... may hbubun-ot ka man gali sa amu ni nga topic? hehehehehe....




past is past... pero sang una may isa ako ka ginacourt.. --> we're good friends now though....; that wala gid ya naga panapak until makatapus kami eskwela kag board exam.... ... pero nagligad na ang tiniun.... kung anu man ang bukad sang bulak sang una, indi na parehos subong, worst is, laya na gid ya.... wala na gid.... te.... friends ah....

pero for sure, indi malaya ang bulak kung na bunyagan lang kag natatap sag insakto....


mahayyy..... :woot: :woot: :woot: :woot: :woot:

hahaha!!! wala na to ah....mas maayu ang ginbaylu sang Ginoo...parehas pa kami tupvians..hehehe!!

ti ano na ang plastada ni migo mel??? Sin-o ginadiskartihan mo mig haw???open pa ang opisina ni Dr. Love during weekends na galing..hehehe!

hulat kita feedback ah..... hehehehehe

i need more opinions, hehehehe!

in the meantime, additional question....

what about expectation/approval sang parents/siblings mo? Does it also matter?

while most of you might say that as long as u both love each other, what other people think, even your family, would not matter... but somehow it does matter... sometimes, things are just easier said than done ;)

well, it will matter up to only a point na ma advise sila and not to direct.... ikaw man mahulid sa pangasaw-un mo kag indi man sila.... kadalasan, isa lang naman ang ihambal nila migo... that is.. ."sigurado ka na ba sa kanya"


---> other questions sometimes are... panu si... kag si... kag si.... ti si anu ya?....



bwahahahaha....


kidding aside.... insakto gid ang hambal ni miga Joy...



your choice... :thumb:

The acceptance and reaction of the Family Members is a Factor though not really the turning of your decision making. But it would be nice kung accepted gid sang imo pamilya......

They are your family and what they are mostly after is your own good..

:thumb: :thumb: :thumb:

Sakto gid mig, ang madugang ko lang is for you to keep an open mind to what your family is saying about your choice. Dako gid ang possibility nga may ara not so good qualities nga indi mo makita sa imo partner kay head over heels ka sa iya, but your family can see this by viewing from a different perspective.

About sa education, it is better if you have the same level of educational attainment as your partner, kay kun sa aton pa pareho ang inyo wavelengths, and mas hapos sa inyo mag discuss sang mga bagay2. It does not matter kun ano ang inyo nga field of expertise, what's important is to have at least the same level. We cannot deny the fact that having a low educational level also hampers one's comprehension of critical issues like politics, religion, sexuality, etc.

very well said @ Sphinx & istroy....

i had a talk with someone yesterday with the same concern sa past nya... pero sad thing was his/her "partner" was not that strong to fight for her/him and was DIRECTED by his/her family... tsk tsk tsk...

Love Is a Many-Splendored Thing

kon si Ara Mina pa gani....

Ayayay Pag ibig...

hehehe..!

:lol:

migo Mel sunda^ lang ang ginapisik sng kurason mo ah.....

Goodluck..! :cheers:

daw wala na ko mapinsaran haw..... tabanun ta na lang na migo rommel!!!! :lol: :bounce :bounce :bounce