i have a friend tawgon ta na lng sangalan nga allan. ga-problema gid sya subong. basi may mai-advice kamo.

Allan has a GF tawgon ta na lng s ngalan na Cathy.mga 5 years na sla.pero na-inlove si Allan sa friend nya nga classmate nya sng college nga pagatawgon ta s ngalan nga Lisa. Gin-istorya nya na si lisa about sang feeling nya diri.kag basi sa pag istoryahanay nila, nabal-an ni Allan nga may feeling man si Lisa sa iya. Tapos gin istorya nya si Cathy nga gusto nya makipag break kay na fall-out of love na sya sa iya kag ginhambal nya nga na-inlove sya kay lisa. But wala nagsugot si Cathy.

Guys, advice bi kung ano ang dapat himuon.

Breakan ya gid gihapon si Cathy...


It would be very unfair for the both of them kung magpadayon sila sa ila nga relasyon nga may lain na naluyagan ang Guy...

agree ko kay lester...


indi ang time kung how long you have both been "ON" that counts... what matter is kung may feeling pa sila sa isa kag isa...

why indi magsugot si "cathy"?.... sa 5 years i believe damu na da sila "pinagsamahan"..... kag basi nanugunan lang si "cathy"....


;)

ti kung indi pa gid bi magsugot ang girl?

PM mo sa akun why indi magsugot ang girl....

there must be some reason....

remember... it takes two to tango... pag isa lang ya break dance na ina... ;)

The Guy should reach out to the Girl and let her understand the consequences if they will go on with their relationship without the Love...

It would be chaotic and would just add up to the bitterness and pain that they would be having in the future......................



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pasugot man kun indi, the guy must end the relationship at once...

or i may say that the girl should open her eyes wide open and understand that
she has an unworthy guy in her life... to say that he had fallen in-loved with the
other girl while he is still in a relationship is just a bs kind of reasoning knowing that
he has new girl in his life, why did he not ask for his freedom before he had told the new girl of his feelings then?... in other words... naniguro lang si laki... and if i were the new girl, i wouldn't trust a man like him.

just a cent.

:D

true true...

agree gid ko yah..

heheh

*baby

Sigurista ang lalaki... sang mahibal-an nya nga may luyag man si Lisa sa iya.. amo pag end nya sa relationship nila ni cathy ( 2-timer )... kalooy kay cathy, kag kalooy man kay lisa,.. kay kung may maluyagan naman nga iban si lalaki, breakan nya na naman si lisa....


I doubt how serious he is to lisa, kung sa mga alog pa..."LIbog lang yan"..... after a few months or years, fall out of love na naman sya.... LOL...


My advise... Lisa and Cathy should dump the guy.... !!!!

on the other hand..

there are a lot of reasons why a man/woman falls-out of love...
and one of them is finding another person to love..

then again... one has to weigh more than the other...

if allan feels more in love with lisa than with cathy..
as in yung - allan>> "love ko na si lisa.. bigla lang..."

its a good consolation for him that he told cathy as soon as possible.. kesa nga magstay sya sa relationship nga wala naman sya gana...

in a relationship (breakup to be specific)..
we can never avoid anyone in the picture to get hurt..

may ara gid na yah.. baliskaron mo man ang kalibutan..
may masakitan gid na..

for cathy... we understand that it is really hard to let go.. specially since 5 years ang inyo relationship.. but there is always a room for learning..
let that 5 years of relationship with allan be your teacher..
and use whatever you have learned to benefit you and your future special someone..
give yourself a break.. relax and take it slowly lang.. coz.. someday.. somehow.. love will find you..
we understand that it hurts.. but take it one day at a time..
remember lang nga if God wants you to let go of one priced possession, He does not mean to hurt you.. but He wants you to see a better perspective outside of the world that you have with your priced possession.. and rest assured He had planned something even better..

for lisa... are you really sure about your feelings with allan.. and are you sure about allan's feelings for you..
yes, he left his girlfriend for you... but isn't it possible that he may do that to you also?? weigh things first before you jump into the relationship... you may even find somebody better than him...

for allan.. don't take it that i am putting you down with the ladies here.. but please bear in mind that you are hurting not just one woman but two... think about it.. and think about it well.. don't rush into things.. remember nga friend is different from girlfriend.. maybe you just loved lisa as a companion.. as a friend.. and you thought it was greater than your love for cathy whom is/was your girlfriend... then later.. nafound out mo nga friend and companionship lang ang gid ang nanamian mo kay lisa.. and you want to go back to cathy.. diba.. dilemma na ina...


think about it.. weigh things first...

all the best sa inyo nga tatlo..





*baby

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allaine,

ti anu mahambal ni "cathy"? :lol:

baw ah!!daw kilala ko ni haw!!hehehe!!

Allaine...karun lang ko matugda ah!! kinahanglan na di si Dr. Love!! dugay na ko wala pasyente eh!!wehehe!!

ngaa mig daw "klasmenatay" kamu haw... :P :lol: :lol: :lol:

Daw abut ko lang...basi ang migo ko ini..nyahaha!

si wolfy kag sphinx,
anad na sa mga sitwasyon nga pareho sini :rolleyes::rolleyes::rolleyes:

Nya ha ha

Gin example mo gid kami bah.... :lol: :lol: :lol:

ayuf!!!!


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para bal-an mig kon sino kagtuan sa mga amo ni ka-critical nga sitwasyon ah.
kon sa akon ni matabo kamo man gihapon kagtuan ko. hehehe...

xoxo: si roy gani kay rostan gaderetso. hehe...

Ha ha ha...

Si utol Roy sa imo gali gapangayo advice Migs?


:lol: :lol: :lol:

ti, diin pa bi. duwa sila ni badong gapuli hatag advise eh. anad man to daan.

ok ah.. .sugot!... hehehehe....mabasahan ni ni c@#@& ang mga ginapanghambal nyo ah... :lol: :lol: :lol:


ako ma advise sa iya ah...


allaine, pakadtuan si "cathy" sa akun kay tagaan ta advise para sa kalalat-an.... :thumb: :thumb: :thumb:

indi advise sa babaye ang topic namun ni roy pirmi ya...

ideas kag facts.....






sang lain lain klase nga mga bagay.... pero dala naman da ang babaye kis-a ah... :lol: :lol: :lol:

thanks gid sa advice miga. :thumb:

ay nong, indi taga "ON" si cathy ti indi ko gid sya madala sa imo. *no *no *no

pwede ta kadtuan an....


dalia samtang ari pa ko sa ospi. :lol: :lol: :lol:

lain man na di si miga katy ya :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:

ato daan problemado man mahahahay!!! :palakan :palakan :palakan

updon ta migo jack sa imnanay para sadya ah.... :thumb: :thumb: :thumb:

Baw maupod kamo?


Tsk tsk tsk *no *no *no


Nya ha ha ha :palakan :palakan :palakan

indi pwede migs haw?... . :naughty: :naughty: :naughty:


:lol:

para mapautwas man ni miga katy prob nya? :) :) :)

tanan nga problema ah....


indi lang kwarta kay wala kita sina... :lol: :lol:

Pwede ah...

Mga batang silaynon kamo nga daan..... :thumb: :thumb:

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Bawww.. Sakit sakit man ni man... :(

Sakit gid ni para kay Cathy.. 5 years?!?!?!
Baaawwwwww...
Madalum gd na nga relasyon..
I understand na indi sya magsugot, for now...
Initial reaction.. sakitan pa na sya...

Pero tani ma realize nya na si Allan na mismo naghambal nga indi na sya
kay na fall out of love na sya kag naluyag na sya kay Lisa..
Sakit man ni batyagon pero dapat batunon...
Sang sa piliton mo imo self sa isa ka tawo nga wala na naluyag sa imo..
Si Cathy man na dyapon ma suffer sa ulihi.
Kanugon man tuod.. kay kalawig sang 5 years but anuhon mo na bi kay asta lang da?

Hapos lang ni hambalon but budlay himuon..
Pero sa amat2x siguro ah..
Eventually maka move on gd na sila...

Advice for cathy..

Cge lang day ah.. amo gd na ya miga..
Lingaw2x lang ah.. Malipatan mo gd na sa dalayun..

Una gd nga step nga himuon mo is to STOP the communication kag ang tanan nga bagay nga ga conektar sa inyo..
Kay indi ka na ka move on kun ara kang sya dyapon..
MAsakitan ka pa gd..

Go out! Lagaw. Enjoy. Malling ka, pagwapa..
Date.. mEet new people..
Lagaw ka with your friends para malingaw ka..
Enjoy gd.. Pa gwapa.. Hinulsulan ya gd na!!!

Go girl! :thumb:


Para kay Lisa.....

Ambot sa imo... Delikado ka gd..
Try to imagine this..
Nahimo ya gani nga bayaan si Cathy nga 5 na sila katuig?!?!?!?!??!!??!?!
Indi na ayhan matabo man sa inyo?

or maybe try to put yourself on Cathy's shoes..
What would you feel?

Para kay Allan...

AMBOT SA IMO DA!!!!

pati ako dalahig bah.... hahahaha


KASAKIT gid eh... 5 years?? dugay na gid kaayo for sure "Cathy" is looking forward na for ringing bells...

ugaling kay na fall out of love c "Allan" kuno...

hmmm..

question: basi may indi nagustuhan c allan kay "Cathy", demanding too much... being too clingy or Moody.. or maybe in 5 years time Allan feels nga wala gid Compatibilty sa ila nga duwa?? coz if im a guy, if i enjoy the company of my GF (for that long span of time) .. i would not settle for anybody else, ara na gid nga kilal-anay kamo.

so, for cathy figure out whats wrong in the relationship (mabal-an mo man na kung ano gid ang problema)

... and let him go for a while, (maybe sa pag updany ninyo, he feels suffocated or he just needs space to think about the relationship with u.. )

LET HIM GO and think.. if he realize your imporatance to his life, believe me HE WILL COME BACK TO U..

On the other hand, you too could enjoy and explore new THINGS, malay mo.. didto mo gale makita ang DESTINY mo..

GIVE A BREAK para sa inyo nga duwa.. REmember its hard kung Commited kana kag marealize mo nga ND gale xa..

:D :D :D

Wow, baskug mag-advise ba...seems you was been there in that situation.

Jacksparrow...kilala mo si cathy?

:palakan :palakan :palakan :palakan :palakan :palakan

based on experience... hehehe.

i do believe in the saying, Nasa HULI ang PAGSISI.. (in this case)

if u think that u had given too much for him, mas masakit kung sa ulihi marealize nya kag magbalik sya nga wala kana gali sa iya.

hahahaha