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Jealousy is one of the quickest and surest ways to get dumped.

Jealousy is a sign of insecurity. It indicates a lack of confidence on your part. By acting in a jealous fashion you're essentially "telling her" that you don't feel worthy of her love, and that you're worried she's going to find one of the many, many guys out there who are "better than" you.

Not to mention the fact that it's an incredibly annoying personality trait.

Never forget that women are attracted to confidence in men. If a woman realizes that you're lacking in self-confidence then she'll lose respect for you. And if she doesn't respect you, she CAN'T love you. And every time you act like a jealous idiot, you lose more of that respect.

Now don't try to tell me that you're the "jealous type" not because of a lack of confidence, but because you really love and care about her. Or because you can't trust her. I'm not buying it... and she won't either.

Jealousy is about YOU and your feelings of insecurity; your lack of confidence; your feelings of inferiority. And it's your problem. It has nothing to do with her. (And if you really can't trust her, then why are you wasting your time. Find someone that you can trust.)

So what do you do if you ARE the jealous type?

Well, since you know that acting in a jealous fashion will push her away from you (by decreasing respect) and acting in a confident fashion will draw her toward you (by increasing respect), then...

... ACT CONFIDENT.

Let her do whatever she wants. Give her all the freedom she wants. Don't complain when she goes out with her friends. Smile when she says she's going to have lunch with her old boyfriend. Encourage her to go to that male strip club. Proudly display your confidence to her.

And know that ACTING CONFIDENT in the face of these circumstances (which make most men jealous) will actually draw her to you. By doing this, you're essentially turning a negative personality trait (jealousy) into a positive personality trait (self-confidence).

You should welcome these types of situations and view them as OPPORTUNITIES to display your confidence to her... and to draw her closer to you.

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hmmmm.. nice post kath.... :thumb:

indi man gid guro tanan nga tinion ah....

kag indi man sa tanan nga tawo...

hehehehehe.....

ga selos ka kay palangga mo sya....

nga gusto mo ikaw lang kag wala na sang iban....

kung ga selos ka, that means palangga mo ang 1 ka tawo...

wala ka nadulaan pagsalig sa iya pero amo mo mna sya ka palangga...

but of course not to the point nga daw ginakuga^ mo na sya ya eh...

hehehehehe....


ikanga eh...

" i don't have the right to be jealous but i do have my own reasons "

IMHO miga kath...

hehehehehehe....

sounds familiar bah.. *baby *baby *baby

hambal mo man gid seloso ka a hahay!!! :lol: :lol: :lol:

nyahahaha!!! amo man na hambal nya haw?mahaaaay!!!! :bounce :bounce :bounce :bounce :bounce

hahahhahaa!!!! ikaw ya pits?? seloso ka man??? :naughty:

ang ba^ba^ nya ho!!

waaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhh!!!!!!!!!


indi na seloso si pits!!!

pawala effect lang na sya pirmi!!

hahahahahaha!!!!!

indi ko ya seloso a hehehe!!!











kay sin-o man ko maselos kay puro man lang na sila mga friends *baby *baby *baby


bweseeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeet!!!hahahahaha!!!!

ahahahahahhaa!!!! dayon mo pamwisit bah, hahahhahaa!!! :palakan

teh, pwede ka man mangin jealous biskan sa friends, di bah?? hehehe.. :lol:

nyahahahahha!!

grabe to gali nga selos mo sang party migs kay damo to mga friends nga nagpalapit sa iya!!!

bwahahahahhahaha!!!!!!!

syempre eh!!!

:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:


amo na si migo tiks pro hahaha!!!

ikaw ya haw? :naughty: :naughty: :naughty:

si bats ya ambot lng heheehe!!!

ok lng a daw mga indi man to puro nga mga lalake mahaaay!!!

balik mo sa akon mig haw?


waaahahahahahha!!!!!!

sin-o mangkot mo pits?? ako?? hehehe.. :lol:

ako ya, aminado ko na jealous type gid ko ya.. biskan sa bf ko or sa mga friends ko, hehe..

inborn na selosa kumbaga, nyahaahha!!! :palakan

sa migo ko ya gaselos ka man ay mahaaaaaay!!! :worthy: :worthy: :worthy:

hahahahahha!!!! nga-a maselos man ko abi?? *baby *baby *baby

bwahahahahaha... napatawa man ko tudo bah! :P

hahahahahha!!! sa bweseeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeet gid na part ay???!!! :lol:

utoy utoy man ko gani kadlaw eh.. :lol:

hoo man...

ngaa maselos ka man abi!?!

ara na hahahaha!!!

sunggodanay naman na karon e :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:

indi pa kamo mag ako^ da :palakan :palakan :palakan

hahahahaha!!!! ambal ko man gani.. :)

ang sungad ya ho!!! aga pa pang-intriga ka na da!!! hahahaha!!! :palakan

next question.... <_<

nga-a maselos man ko abi???!!!



nyahhahahahha!!! :palakan :palakan :palakan

abaw ah... lawig na di ang kid2an sang thread ta ba...

ako, selosa man... gahulas daan ang ilong kung kis-a..

wahahahhahahh

gin sulit2 pa gid bah!!

wahahahahahaha!!!!

:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:

tawa^ ka gid miga kathy haw?


hahahahahaha!!

ako seloso man miga pero wala gahulas akon ilong....

hehehehehehe......

gale!!! te sugot ah!!

labay man ang akon, gaselos ka man kay GA^ mo??

daw nsubaybayan ko na abi ang thread nyo did2 sa pihak...

hahahahahahhaah :lol: :lol: :lol:

waaaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

:woot: :woot: :woot: :woot: :woot: :woot: :woot:



dagdag man ko sa bangko sang pamangkot mo bah!!!


nyahahahahahahaha!!!!!!!!!!!!!


gaselos man eh.. *sick *sick *sick

ngaa haw???


hahahahahahaha!!!!!!!!!
:palakan :palakan :palakan :palakan

mangkot lng ah...

pede pa gid kahirit pamangkot????

kanday sin-o ginaselosan mo mn???

wahahahahahahah :lol: :lol: :lol:

you might not have the right... but you could have some reasons... :naughty:

abaw????

teh, ano matugyan nyo di ho...

well, thats the saddest thing... you have reasons to be jealous but you have no right to spill it out...

TAGUON MO NLNG eh... kag REDHORSE ang atubangon...

wahahahahaha :palakan :palakan :palakan :palakan :palakan

ano mig???


waaaaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhhhh!!!!!!!!!!!!!



basta seloso ko ah!

period!!!!!...................................................................................

teh sugot nalng ah!!!!

wahahahhaha :lol: :lol: :lol:

ako selosa man ko pero wala man gahulas ang ilong....hehehe!


kag lain man tood nga daw ginakuga mo na ang partner mo kay tungod sa selos mo...pero kon may selos buot silingon may gugma...pero dapat indi sobra sobra.

your right joy...


IHMO...

ngaa may mga tawo nga kabalo na sila nga ga selos ka, pero daw gina hungod pa gid nga paseloso ka? why?

to test you??? or trip lang nila???

hmmnn....

palihog man ko bi sang opinion nyo....

depende sa sitwasyun pre....ano ini ginatumod mo? Gapangaluyag pa lang or mag-ON na??

Kung gapangaluyag pa lang...ti mahambal ta guro nga ginatest ka eh...kung ano ang imo buhaton...it's man's move!!

KUng kamo na tapos ginapaselos ko...pwede mo man mahambal nga ginatest ka or trip lang eh...but sometimes jealousy means insecure ka kag wala ka trust sa partner mo..so no need to be jealous if u have trust to the one you love. It happens kis-a sa mga tupvians kay ang mga girls ta close sa mga boys...and vice versa...so if have time talk kamo ka partner mo..na there's no big deal and no need to be jealous....kay super friendly kita nga tupvians! :thumb:

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