My girlfriend just broke up with me last night/ moring and I can't think of a way to deal with the pain other than talk about it. I met her on line at another forum site. (but the lair is my home) And she just dropped me. I think I loved her. and I still do.

Well, nothing much I can say but, buckle down and work through it. Sitting around dredging up the past and staying in it won't help anyone. Best thing you can do is find an outlet and go to town on it. Go out with friends and the like, cut loose for a while, you'll be okay Fang, you're a decent guy, I'm sure there'll be more fish in the ocean ready to snag onto your line. I know, strange and weird fishing analogy, but still, the moral of the story is, bad things happen to good people. You'll pull through, but if you go emo on me I'm kicking your ass. :jedi:

Thanks for the support. And you don't have to worry about the emo thing. I'm more goth/punk/lunatic anyways.

*Points to his current signature* :sing:

Hey, I know that feeling all to well Fang. It'll get better though, and for now just keep your mind off stuff. Like Kaiser said, find an outlet. For me it's art and cars, and let me tell you that having something to keep you busy makes things alot better ;)

Good luck man :beers:

I too know the feelings you speak of, my brother in blood.

Some people scoff at these internet romances, but they're just as real, and hurt just as much as face-to-face ones.

I'ld offer some sagely advice as the official old-man-on-the-mountian of the lair.. but I can't think of any right now.. So to help ease the pain I'm going to give you a magical pogostick that thinks it's Mr.Ed.

Thanks guys. Yeah it was as real as any real one. We talked on the phone alot. It was after I sent her a pick of me. That was the end of it.

Hmm... I'm not trying to be bitchy 'bout this, cause I mean, I agree completely with what ya'll have already said. Breakups are rough. But Fang... surrounding yourself in sadness isn't going to help you at all. -She points at his side icon and then at his signature-

You need happiness, and sunshine and goodies. Not dark and depressing. Trust me, it'll do yah good.

Mmmhmm.. Yes. Tragic but true. That's a stumbling block in 80% (Note: Statistic made up on spot. Not garenteed to be true) of all online relationships. Sometimes one of the partners is expecting the other one to look better than they really do.. and when they see the partner for the first time, all those pre-concived mental fantasys shatter, and people oftain bolt.

And anyone who bolts over something as silly as how you look doesn't deserve your tears.

I know. That I shouldn't steep myself darkness and pain. But it makes it feel better. And as for my tears maybe your right. But none the less. I still miss her. For now anyways.

Just talked to her again don't now why. But I found out that she...never really loved me.

*head rears back and a huge scream filled with sorrow comes out.*
SHE NEVER GAVE A DAMN ABOUT ME!!
*screams again huge blast destorys everything around him.*
NEVER EVEN CARED!!!
*starts to punch ground while tears run down his face.*
And I did.

Another problem with online flings, Fang.

There's almost no way to know if things are how you think they are.

That's why I swore off online things myself.. Although I've met a couple girls since then that I considered going after anyway.. it always leads to heartbreak in the end.

On another note.. If you keep up with the property damage in the general zone we're going to fax you the repair bills.

You know desipite being in a grip of rage. That still made me laguh.

That's what I'm here for, Fang. I can bring a laugh to people even in the direst of times.

Here, have some :beers: and settle down for a moment. Then when you've collected yourself a little, let that rage flow into an rpg post, don't wast it out here in the general section.

So sorry to hear that Fang. My own girlfriend dumped me coming soon on two years. I, too, was very hurt. But I eventually dealt with it and things got better. I threw myself into my hobbies. (Computers and music mostly)

I hope that knowing what you know now, things will be better in your future relationships. :)

Good luck and also know that we lair-ites are here to also help you over this. :)

Thanks. I'll try to work through it.

All else fails you can use Army as a punching bag :heh:

Maybe later. :booze:

Well if ya need any help Fang, let me know :smirk:

Blood's usually full of quirkness, but occasionally some profound wisdom.

Okay. I'll keep that in mind. i'm gona change my avatar. Looking at it hurts.

I'm gonna give you some advice. I'm saying this nicely.
DONT sit in your own pity. Try to lose the doom and gloom thats hanging over you and try to get over it. We want the old bloodfang back.

Aw, see Fang, you're a good boy. ^__^; Already on the road to recovery simply by changing teh avatar.

-Gives him a cookie.-

Good, now all we need is a new sig for you to work with :banger:

Old bloodfang? You mean running around in a mad rant? Or the deep inqustive one?

Whats the code for sigs. I'll try something.

You can edit your signature through the my controls option, click on editting signature and typing it in that way.

You mean the picture url? you guys don't use Html codes?

If you're trying to upload an image into your signature you need to use the IMG brackets around the image, if this gets any more technical I'll just pass the buck to Kris :heh:

I did it!!! :D :D :D

Kudos :beers:

Now then, start cheering up and venting frustrations through your characters in the various RPs ;>

The inquisitive and ranting one :P

Your not gonna beleive this hell I don't even beleive it. but on that same fourm site. I now have not one not two but three girls coming on to me.

I don't find that hard to belave.. especially amoung younger girls... It's apperantly become a social stigma not to have a special someone anymore. >_>

People have just gotten whiny and want sex at younger and younger ages.. and they try to justify the sex with relationships..

All in all, .. The clothing indistry is to blame.. they keep making whorish clothes for pre-teens becuase "that's what they want to wear" >_> The kids are fed these clothes.. and as a result try and act more like adults.. including forcing themselves into relationships becuase they think it's a cool thing to do.


Of course I might be compleatly off with my observations.. but that seems like that case in alot of the big forums anyway.

-Blinks at Blood.-

-Then looks at her closet full of little tight whoreish outfits-

-.........huffs.-

YOU CANT PROVE ANYTHING! xD

Anyways, Fang, thats uhm... a good development for you I believe. Though I must ask, whom gave Fang the bottle of "swallow one and produce a harem!" pills.

Gonna have to say James, yep, James.

Now if only I had some of those pills...yesss, life would be fun.

*goes back to pretzel dogs and sweet mustard*

Well you guys seem to see this from a different point of veiw. I am not happy aobut this. One of them came to me crying about a guy that she liked just told her that he doesn't like her like she did. Another is sex crazy which freaks me out. The final is so on edge she thinks she's part cat. As you can see I'm in big troubale.

Not to be rude but sounds like you should just be straight with'em and tell them what you think. As for the third.....

We'll sort Riven out so you don't get bothered again :P

*Is stupified and drooling*
:eep: :excited: :sglomp: :banger: :freakout: :w00t:

If it's such a bad thing, tell them straight, or have someone you know talk them down. There are usually a few of us "Psyhciatrists" on any and all forums. I can play the part here, I sometimes do.

I'd say grab an aquaintance to let them down gently if you so choose. OR, you can drag them with you here, and give this place a few more members.


....we're desperate for more Participants :weep:

On that note, it's superbowl sunday, and I hate sports. So, time to do the next best thing! :booze:

Okay I took you guys advice
The Sex crazy one: found out she's 12..my brain just over loaded.
Sad one: In realtion ship with her.
Cat girl: told her about the sad one, she went berserk and is not talking to me.

Congrats on the... sad one?

And the cat girl. o.o;; Mrrrrr. There are some chicks whom don't really like sharing their men with other girls. Could explain why she got upset. Or she's just overall jealous.

Then again, you mentioned she is a bit on edge, so....

And yes, Kai, an entire closet full of those outfits.