So since the resident sexpert is back I'm going to take advantage of her

knowledge. I'm wondering how you find out a girl is gay or not. You see, this girl (total stranger) came up to me at a pub to tell me I was a great dancer and that she really liked my top. We chatted briefly and her friends ended up dancing with us. Now I keep seeing her at the café I go to and we always have a quick chat. How do I find out without embarassing myself or her?

You should wear a top that says "sex with girls is awesome" and see if she likes that top. That is my tip.

:no: *waits for the resident sexpert*

Ha ha Kate. Funny, but that may work...and you might pick up more than just her!

Sounds like she likes you. A couple of things, maybe bring up if she's seeing someone. Or have a chat about who looks nice at the pub or something. Or even ask if she wants to go and have coffee or something.

Thats my suggestion.

Nancy

:whistle:

Ha! Well, I like the idea of a shirt but I may put it into an oversized button. My Kate, whatta thinker you are!

And Keol great advice, but I won't be needing it. She beat me to the punch and asked me to go for a walk with her in the nearby park and well...thank God she's not as shy as I can be sometimes. She did all the hardwork of asking the questions and it turns out that talking abut politics is a good way to find things out!! :P Anywho, we're going to go see a geeky documentary together this week!!

WHOO HOOO!!!! Way to go Smidge!!! Going to see a documentary. That sounds pretty cool. Very different. But very cool. :-D :yes:

:D YAY Smidge! Good for you.

I don't know what Documentary you are going to see, or when you are going to see it, but I know that a movie date is a great start! It definately sounds like she likes you. I wish you all the best!

Linz :P