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Title: I Need Advice Too


CleaRocks92577 - June 28, 2004 02:52 AM (GMT)
Ok..so about a week ago I met this girl online that I instantly clicked with and I am really starting to like her thing is she's in Jersey and i'm in Illinois that aside I am really falling for her and told her that I like her but have yet to make a "move" on her as far as a relationship would go.
The other night she wanted me to call her and we talked for atleast a good hour and a half and ended up having phone sex wich she started but since I like her so damn much it's not like I wanted to stop it either but now I am so confused because i'm not sure of her feelings towards me I don't know if she just wants to be friends or something more..What should I do? Should I ask her out or just wait for her to do something?

Kate - June 28, 2004 10:20 AM (GMT)
At the risk of freaking a few people out, I am always 'falling' for people online. You know what's stupider? I live In Australia.

Now, I'm no geographical wizard... but I'm pretty sure that Illinois (where Wayne's World is set) is in the middle of the USA and New Jersey (where Fran Drescher is from) is way over to the east, right? So, we're not just talking about hopping on a bus to see each other.

Also, you said that you started talking a week ago. Not very long. While I have thought I was ready for marriage after 3 days before, I am working on the assumption that you are not as stupid as I am, so you must realise that that is a tiny amount of time.

But, how old are the both of you?

I think you should just relax and have fun. :yes: Don't over-think it.

Linz - June 30, 2004 05:31 PM (GMT)
I would have to agree with Kate on this one. I myself have fallen for people online, which I think is very easy to do and not shameful at all. But, Her living in Illinois and you in Jersey...It's a bit of a treck to go back and forth to visit. I think that you should definately let this one play out for a little while, and if yo uware stil l feeling like this girl is tops, then see what you can do about meeting or something. Don't rush it. I have found that rushing online relationships does nothing but freak out yoru friends and leave you in the same place you were before. :yes:




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