:/ Okey people... Friday night I head back into London to see some friends and I meet this REALLY hot chick, and we get it together for that evening even though i have a girlfriend...I thought it was a one night thing but we both like each other and I found out she lives right near me down in the south of England, now I can't decide weather I should finish it with my girlfriend (who is also hot) and start again with this REALLY hot girl or just carry on being with my girlfriend.

Votes and comments would be lovely.

I think that this depends on you. Do you still love your girlfriend? do you want to be with her anymore? Cuase, if you can have fun with another girl...and by have fun I don't mean go see a movie and just "hang out" then don't you think that you are over your current girl? Don't hurt anyone to be with the hot chick, just try to figure out where you stand with your current girl and work from there.

it's ok people my girlfriend just made the choice for me, :/ Someone told her about the other girl and she finished with me... :w00t: at least I can live happily with the hot girl without worrying about my girlfriend.

SOunds like you are pretty happy about the situation so congrats...I think. :/

I don't get upset about stuff like that, always happy I am :D One day when I turn 50 my happiness will run out and I'll turn into a grumpy old person :w00t: I can't wait.

I think that it's pretty impressive that you don't let stuff like that effect you. I have a hard time NOT letting it get me down. My girlfriend and I should have broken up like 6 months ago, and we are still together, miserably and barely, cause I can't imagine being single. Even if I know that's what I actually want. So I commend you on your strength of character.

Oh thankies... Single life rocks, do some shopping for the perfect woman.

Lol...I think that I'm going to have to do that. Thanks!

Glad things worked out for you Idle. And sorry to hear about your situation Linz. I've kinda always been like Idle, in that I don't think twice about ending a relationship. I used to dump people after three weeks if I didn't get an INCREDIBLE vibe! Once you start dragging things out it only gets harder. That out the axe sweetheart, and don't go shopping for another girl.....Get new shoes for heaven's sake....or maybe some cute new "great ass jeans"....or maybe...no me baaaaaaaaad me...shopping is evil. :lol:
SaraHa
P.S. I finally found thaT "INCREDIBLE VIBE" and we've been together for two years in June. My friends all make fun of me and call me "the runaway bride" coz they think I'm a commitment-a-phobe, but I'm warming up to it. We're moving in together in June as well. Good luck!

congratulations on your new found love for commitment. I don't fear commitment, I just fear ending up with the wrong woman so I explore all my options if I can.

Good for you Smidge. Goodluck with the move in. Living with your girl is MUCH harder than I ever thought that it would be.
I, unfortunately, have a little problem called low self esteem. I'm working on it so soon I will be able to say...."Bitch, I deserve better than you" and walk away. One day. I can dream right?

Thats awesome smidge. commitment and me are like ummm a fat kid not loving cake (sorry took it from 50 cent lyrics...ill never do that again)

Sweeeeeeet! I've never seen anybody be able to slip 50 cent lyrics so casually into a conversation. Haaaahaaaaa. I used to be a total commitment-a-phobe....and honestly, I'm still totally freaked about this moving in thing. It'll be better for me in the long run because I won't have to pay the bills and that'll help me save for tuition. Also I smoke too much dope living with my roomie. Evil influence. I guess I'll just have to wait and see how it turns out. I love my own space and independence so this is a serious threat to that. :huh: oh dear god, I'm starting to panic again LOL!

SaraHa

Oh yeah, Linz. It's not my girl...it's my boy. I feel guilty being a straight person on this board. I'm worried if I say I'm dating a boy I will be banished :$ . Oh well! On the side, if you dump your girlfriend that may even be the solution to your self-confidence problems. Plus being single rocks, you don't have all that commitment if you want to travel, which I hope I still have the guts to do for next year. Anywho, good luck (although I'm sure you don't need it). You sound like an intelligent fun-loving gal who deserves better than a relationship that only helps with self-distruction. Take a course like rock-climbing or kickboxing to up your esteem. I realize it's physical, but it navigates to the internal...Trust me.

SaraHa

Ah...good ol' 50 Cent lyrics. 50 Cent is so deep...

Don't feel guilty, you're not the only one... :yes: Good luck with the moving in.

Hey...you breeders are alright. ;) Sorry I assumed you were a big "Mo" like so many of us here on the board. I didn't mean to offend if I did I am sorry. Assuming makes an Ass out of u and me (Assume) LOL. That's how I remember to spell that word. I actually broke up with my girl last night and I am doing just fine with it. I live with her though, so this is going to be interesting. Hopefully everything will be ok. I thin kthat it will be. I'm in a lease until August, so really it HAS to be. :yes: Thanks for the vote of confidence Smidge.

Dont feel bad Smidge. I'm a straight girl. n i still love clea. :wub:

:huh: Why? :unsure: You're not alone :P

:o No need to be worried ... there's 100% tolerance on this board :angel:

GO GO GO GO on love its my birthday, you look tarty love, it's my birthday, I'll buy you a bacardi Love its my birthday, and you know i'm only joking its not my birthday <--- what 50 cent would sound like if he was from south London.

I love Straight people, straight people made me... :w00t:

Linz, I hope that everything does work out. From what you've told us before, it sounds like you've done the right thing. :)

*claps Linz*

*sniifs the air* WOW! AMazing, I can feel the love and smell it too! :wub: U guys rock. Linz, I'm ever so happy for you, and I hope you stick to your guns. I think your b-day coming up will be the start of something fabulous. You should still take and ass kicking course to ensure you don't wind up with some undeserving loser. O-tay? ;)

SaraHa

:yes: OOOOOOOOOOOOO-TAAAAAAAAAY! Thanks everyone. I'm single, my birthday is coming up...AND I'm gonna make out with lots of girls who I don't know. WOHOO!!!! (Not really, I just like pretending that I'm a big slut sometimes.)

it's fune to be a slut sometimes. :w00t:

I can imagine that it would be fun..I don't know that I have it in me to be one though. :/

I'm not sure what its like lmao

LOL..you and me both Crystie. :yes:

when i lived in London some old dyke called me a slut but in a nice way... I wasn't really a slut i was just viewing my options. :yes:

I don't think that there is anything wrong with viewing your options as long as boith parties are aware that you are just viewing your options.

errrm :blink: Most of the time.

LOL!!! :w00t: YOU are a slut!!! Good for you! :whistle:

APPARENTLY I'm a player.