sort of off topic to what graham is saying but on topic with identity issues. ok be honest with me guys....ya think its wrong for me to think clea is hot even tho i'm straight? i mean shes like the girl i am most attracted to...i just cant get enough of her..maybe theres sumthin wrong with that. heres a quote from clea tho...it kinda helped me out: "Teen years are a very confusing time. I think everyone's a little neurotic and insecure and depressed sometimes."

But i dunno..what do you guys think?

welll that was more of a sexual preference issue...but thats ok!

I think you're right... when you're a teenager, your hormones are all over the place. And sometimes even perfectly straight people are attracted to members of their same sex and it turns out to be nothing. But look at it objectively. Is there something about Clea that you admire? Like a quality or trait or something that is something you would really like to possess? Do you think she's beautiful and wish you looked like that? Then it's probably just an innocent, harmless lil crush that just about all straight girls get. But if you look at her and think she's gorgeous and you feel really physically attracted to her... or if you think she is incredibly sexy... or something like that, then maybe there's a bit of bisexuality there and that'd be OK. But unless you feel powerfully attracted to her, with sexual feelings there, then it's probably nothing... just an admiration thing.

I don't think it's wrong. I'm straight and i have a crush on Clea. I have heard that most people get crushes on the same sex as teenagers too. Or, they sort of confuse their feelings. Don't stress about it too much :)

Yep, stress less. :)

I have crushes on people too, and they are nothing more than admiration. Just relax and things will fall into place for you. Everyone gets celebrity lust now and then, and it's Clea - so, you know, der.

yea i wanna look like her. i wanna have her face and her hair and everything. i dont have like sexual feelings for her...but she is so damn gorgeous. like if i ever met her i wouldnt know what to say cuz i would be so stunned i was looking her in the eye.

ok since were on the topic...has anyone ever seen the show caitlins way? they took it off the air..probly cuz it was a bad influence on kids cuz it was on a kids network (nickelodeon)...but as a kid i really admired lindsay felton...shes cute too...look at these pics:

http://lindsayfelton.com/lindsayfelton/pages/cw1026_jpg.htm

http://lindsayfelton.com/lindsayfelton/pages/cw1039_jpg.htm

Ohmigod, I do remember that show! It wasn't on long, was it? God, what was it... she was a city kid who was sent to live with family in the country? What was the premise of the show, though, and what made it so bad that it was taken off the air. I don't remember details but I know I saw at least a couple episodes...

I was wondering what the whole "bad influence" thing was as well. I never caught a full episode of the show, but I do remember that they used the "serious announcer" voice everytime an ad came on.

But yeah, I thought she was hot when on that show. I don't like her hair now though. :P

she was just a badass who probably got complained about so they took her off the air cuz people might want to get arrested like she did...weird concept but who knows? i still think she is so cute.

Ok back on topic. ok i think i havent told you guys this for long enough. ok i kind of think like i cant say that i think other girls are like hot or cute. not that you guys would jump in my face and be like oh ok youre gay....definitely not at all. but i want to be able to say oh yea i think shes hot without feeling bad about it. ive never been able to do that before. Like ok say i wanna say "yea lindsay felton, shes hot, cute, whatever" i dont feel like i can even say that because of my straightness. i dont like have romantic interests in women but i tend to admire a lot of girls....usually celebs tho. i just want to get like across that like i kinda dont feel comfortable saying someone is hot..i feel like im gonna like turn some heads like wow i cant believe she just sed that...its so weird :$ . im not trying to say im uncomfortable with you guys cuz i'm not, sorry if i made it look that way. i just dont know what to say when i think someone is really gorgeous. :wacko: :unsure: :( :mellow:

If you think she is (or any girl or guy) is hot, then say so. Dont be putting a lable on yourself. The only lable is being you. Watching clea makes you happy...then more power to you.
I think girls are hot...and there are some guys that I think are hot too...but that doesnt change my preference.

by saying someone is hot doesn't mean that you'd want to get with them or that you're sexually attracted to them per se. it could just mean that you admire them or that they are really gorgeous. it doesn't have to be connected with your sexual orientation. so if you wanna say some chic is hot, then rock on and say that. it's all good. i would never link that to your sexual preference. so... yeah. just thought i'd say that. i hope that makes you feel a little better crystie!

Yea it does...thanks. ok now that we have cleared that up...i think i hafta name all the girls i think are gorgeous...sorry but gotta get it off my chest:

Julia Stiles
Clea DuVall
Brittany Murphy
Cameron Diaz
Anna Faris
Renee Zellweger
Lindsay Felton
Katharine Towne
Michelle Branch
The girl from the Black Eyed Peas
Jessica Simpson
Robin from the Real World San Diego
Hilary Duff slightly...please dont murder me for saying that hehe.
Lindsay Lohan...watch teenage drama queen music video
Angelina Jolie
Amanda Peet
Christina Aguilera (yea i know shes a slut bag but shes pretty)
Elisha Cuthbert
Jennifer Aniston


Wow hmm more than i thought...let me know if you like any of these ladies...

Do you think she looks better as a brunette or a blonde? I am asking this, because most people I ask just stare at me blankly before wandering away. :P

I adored her character in "May" just because she was so.. so... *smacks her forehead*. Y'know?

crystie, on your list, i like...
Julia Stiles
Clea DuVall
Cameron Diaz
Renee Zellweger
Michelle Branch - my friend toured with her and opened for all her concerts... pretty cool, huh?
Angelina Jolie- i have mixed feelings about her...
Amanda Peet
Jennifer Aniston- she annoys me a lot but she is really pretty

Call me old but Ihave no idea who these girls are :no:
But I understand your reservations about expressing their "hot". I think it would only be a concern to others if there was never a time when you said some guy was hot. On the other hand who the hell are they to make a judgement about you!

Dont Worry I'll clear it all up for you. woo funn.

Julia Stiles- recenty in A Guy thing and in like 1998 10 things i hate about you (classic teen movie)
Brittany Murphy-recently in just married and she was daisy in girl, interrupted. her hair is usually blonde
Lindsay Felton-in an old nickelodeon show called caitlyn's way...not many people have heard of her but shes pretty awesome.
Michelle Branch-the singer. gorgeous voice...ummm first single was everywhere
The girl from the Black Eyed Peas-black eyed peas sing where is the love?
Jessica Simpson-from the newlyweds and shes a pop singer...shes married to 98 degrees' Nick Lachey :wub: man he is so hot
Robin from the Real World San Diego-yea basically self explanitory
Hilary Duff slightly...please dont murder me for saying that hehe.-pop singer, lindsay lohan's rival..yea long story. she was in cheaper by the dozen and lizzy mcGuire
Lindsay Lohan...watch teenage drama queen music video-was in the parent trap as the star(s) and was recently in freaky friday and confessions of a teenage drama queen. hilary duff's rival
Amanda Peet-in identity with clea...also in saving silverman and whipped
Elisha Cuthbert-in old school as that teenager that luke wilson hooks up with


Yea thats them...if you want pics of them i can put them in your inbox