Title: First Kiss?
Crystie - February 28, 2004 01:07 AM (GMT)
Ok...curious. when was your first kiss? how old were you, who was it to...where was it...details details. ill start. I was 9 and neither of us had kissed anyone before but we were talking and stuff and he was being really sweet and he just kissed me. it was in my basement....but that wasnt a real one. my first real one was in the pool with a guy when i was 10...hehe cutttee.
GrahamEaton - February 28, 2004 05:33 AM (GMT)
My first kiss ever, like with tongues and stuff, lol, was with this girl named Aimee when we were like, nine. We were experimenting.... But I mean, I didn't connect the whole kissing a girl thing to being a lesbian and thus spent the next nine years trying to date guys but then ducking their sexual advances and not understanding why. But my first grown up kiss was with this guy named Kevin. I was a sophomore in high school and he had graduated the year before and was engaged but I had been obsessed with him for ever and then we kissed and he left and I threw up. Hmmm. LOL.
My first kiss with a girl is one of my favorite stories ever! My freshmen year in college, I didn't know a soul and I found an online lesbian site based on my campus. I met this girl named Amanda and we chatted for a bit and decided to go out on a date. She decides to come to my dorm. So I am a nervous wreck, changing my clothes like 600 times and finally she shows up and she's massively hot... really tiny, really, really punky, shaved head, lil punky glasses... totally my type. I was like, ah! And she brought two of her gay boy friends along so it wouldn't be so awkward and the four of us crammed in my bedroom to watch BIAC cuz none of them ever saw it. Well, Amanda and I were on my bed and the guys were on my roommates bed. Amanda and I kept like, touching under the blankets... like our legs, our feet, our hands, whatever, just like.... touching. And then she took my hand under the blanket and was like, rubbing her thumb over my hand, which was so hot and I thought I was gonna pass out. After the movie, her friends went outside to smoke and let us say good-bye in private and we talked about making plans for the next night and hugged and then it just happened..... And it was so amazing and the whole time I'm thinking, "Oh, my god, I am kissing a girl!" and I was so thrilled cuz I finally understood what the big deal about kissing was. It's amazing how vivid my memories of that night were... that was like three years ago. And as much as I completely love and adore my girlfriend, that first kiss with Amanda was like, the hottest kiss ever... probably because it was my first, you know......
Kate - February 28, 2004 07:56 AM (GMT)
My first kiss was with a guy named Cameron, and I was about 7. We were on a family holiday together and we used to go off "for a walk" and just make out. Then, it progressed to "I'll show you mine, if you show me yours" and I remember saying "actually, you don't have to show me yours, that's OK" and walking off... I think he was rather cut at having to zip up so upbruptly, because the next week at school he told everyone that we had sex.... and so I told everyone that he wet his pants. Ahhh, young love.
I kissed a girl when I was about 9 and she was 12. We just went behind her garage and I kept telling her that girls weren't supposed to kiss other girls, and she said "If you were my friend, you'd do it" so I thought "Hm, good point" and decided to be a good friend.
emma - February 28, 2004 06:17 PM (GMT)
ok my first kiss with a boy was in grade 8 so that would make me 12, i cant even remember his name.
but my first kiss with a girl i was 15, it was really lame, we were sitting there at skewl and my two friends were going out, and someone else wanted to watch them kiss, and they were like well only if sara and kirstyn kiss. i was like i dunno what do i get out of it?? i want a bottle of coke, so they fuckin ran to the tuckshop and bought me and sara a bottle of coke each, so they kissed and then we did, it was sooooo fuckin nice and she later became my first gf.
Idle_Shit - May 16, 2004 04:32 PM (GMT)
Oooh I enjoyed reading that :w00t: Ok my first kiss was when I was in year 6 so I was errrm 11, and I had been going out (holding hands with) this boy called neil for two years, and we had never kissed properly, and so one day we was sitting on the steps by the hut we had our classes in and he leant in to kiss me, I remember his slimy tounge trying to go into my mouth and me pulling away gagging and dumping him straight away...he went round telling everyone I was fridgid :angry: But anyways we all went to different secondary schools and I avoided kissing people for 5 years or so, then I joined college and went to my first gay pub and I met this girl, well woman, there...well I saw her dancing and my mouth dropped :o Cause she was so gorgeous, anyways me being all quirky and a little to confident at times, I went over and brought her a drink and didn't expect anything of it and she leant in and kissed me, and it was goooood :w00t: I was walking on air for the rest of that night.
Smidge - May 17, 2004 04:21 AM (GMT)
My first kiss was with my 'boyfriend' when i was 10. All the couple in grade 5 would gather around the kissing tree and dare each other to kiss. They dared my to kiss Ben, but I felt like that was sooo icky for everyone to see my first kiss. It was personal. I refused and they all made fun of me and Ben( he looked really sad), when the bell rang and they all started running, I grabbed him and kissed him. He was the cutest little boyfriend ever, he used to come to my soccer games and bring me candy. I remeber all those kisses when I was young so well, they just seemed to radiates all through you body. Mmmmm kisses. Right then I'm off! :wub:
SaraHa
Linz - May 18, 2004 07:23 PM (GMT)
Ok...first of all I would like to say that Crystie, this is a great thread. I don't know why none of us thought of it sooner.
Now..My first REAL kiss...to a boy...His name was Peter. I forget his last name. I was 10, in 5th grade. We had gone to a birthday party and everyone was playing spin the bottle. I spun, got Peter and we kissed for a whole minute. That was it. Boring I know. I remember not liking it very much.
My first REAL girl kiss...this is a great story. I was a Sophmore in College, so 19...I know I was old...My best friend at the time, her name is Rae, and we used to hang out and watch movies all the time until the wee hours of the morning. She didn't go to my college, but she was from my hometown. We worked together at Honeydew Donuts and she is 3 years older than me. ANYWAY..we were laying on her couch watching Blind Date. Horrible TV show by the way, and we got into a tickle fight, because that is what everyone does with their best friend...yeah right. She is a tiny little thing, my hight but skinny, and very androgonus...which I LOVE!!! She ended up winning...she always did...and she had me pinned down on the couch. She just went in and started kissing me. At first I kissed her back, Side note here is that I was engaged to a boy at the time...then she stopped realizing what she was doing. She was like "Oh my God...I'm so sorry...I'm sooo...No I'm not". She then went back in for more. At this point I was like a deer in the headlights of a car. I Pushed her off of me and was like..."I can't do this. I'm engaged!" She got off me and cried alot. We hung out the next day. Rae was also my first real love. I miss her.
Crystie - May 18, 2004 09:50 PM (GMT)
Why thank ya linz...have u guys been noticing that a lot of our first kisses happened around age 10 or so? anyway...great story linz. haha it was kinda weird readin it cuz as soon as u sed tickle fight i thought about my best friend alex...except shes not ticklish so im always on the downside of those fights haha...shes a fun time tho. she likes to pretend shes a slut wen were out n stuff n she tempts cashiers at like starbucks by like lickeing the whipped cream off her coffee...shes so great. haha.
Crystie - May 18, 2004 09:50 PM (GMT)
wow i definitely just sed lickeing....licking*******
jemkat - May 19, 2004 09:33 AM (GMT)
When I was about 8, i used to fool around with my friend in the spare bedroom on the big bed. We used to play princesses, and I always had to be the boy. There was kissing etc, and I really didn't mine being the boy, B)
I used to run away from boys all through high school, as they weren't the 'right one' (Surprise, surprise I heard this mimicked in Ellen's 'coming out' show, lol).
I had realised that I was gay when I was 18, and had decided to do my usual of reading everything I could about stuff before I 'did' something. So I knew a lot about being gay, before I was 'practicing'.
I was 19, and at a girls night at a bar, and a friend of a friend, whom I had never seen before in my life, stuck her tongue down my throat! I ended up asking who she was as she was licking my neck, lol. She woulda been about 30 years old then, and I remember her best friend trying to cause shit, as I had hooked into her, and not the other way around.
This started my life into dyke drama. :angel:
Idle_Shit - May 20, 2004 12:52 AM (GMT)
all this kiss talking makes me want to have a kiss, but i'm home alone. :( *kisses back of hand* awwww there we go.
Kate - May 20, 2004 08:04 AM (GMT)
It's funny how most of us have a 'first' kiss and then a 'real first' kiss, I think.
I know what you mean, Idle.
*kisses own hand* fresh! :o
*slaps face with hand* ow! :(
Love hurts.
Linz - May 20, 2004 02:17 PM (GMT)
::Rolls on the floor in a fit of laughter::
::Trys to catch breath from laughing so hard::
Ow...my side hurts now.
I want to kiss someone too!!!! DAMN IT! SOMEONE KISS ME!!! :angry: :@
Idle_Shit - May 21, 2004 12:25 AM (GMT)
*grabs Linz and kisses her* :wub: There we go.
Crystie - May 21, 2004 12:32 AM (GMT)
booooooo get a room. lmao. :lol:
Idle_Shit - May 21, 2004 12:34 AM (GMT)
:o *gets real embarressed :$ and runs out of room*
Crystie - May 21, 2004 01:17 AM (GMT)
Kate - May 21, 2004 08:38 AM (GMT)
*laughs with hand... and thinks about kissing it again*
jemkat - May 21, 2004 10:29 AM (GMT)
| QUOTE (Crystie @ May 21 2004, 12:32 PM) |
| booooooo get a room. lmao. :lol: |
Yes, I'd agree with this! Get a room! :w00t:
Idle_Shit - May 21, 2004 11:28 PM (GMT)
Linz - May 24, 2004 08:34 PM (GMT)
HEY!!!! I wasn't even in the room when she kissed me so lay off. He he he.
Idle :wub:
Thanks for taking care of that ermmmm problem of mine. ;)
You girls are real silly. :yes:
Idle_Shit - May 26, 2004 12:42 AM (GMT)
*plays with lip ring* ;) thats ok, anytime.
Linz - May 26, 2004 06:38 PM (GMT)
I have always wanted a lip ring. I can't have one at my current job, but one day!!! I love them...they are so sexy. :yes: :wub:
Crystie - May 26, 2004 08:29 PM (GMT)
i want a cartilage piercing...ear :yes:
Linz - May 26, 2004 08:54 PM (GMT)
I have one of those...I also have my conch pierced. that is the inside of your ear. Like right through the middle...does that make sense?
Crystie - May 26, 2004 11:16 PM (GMT)
yea my friend has her conch pierced :yes:
Linz - May 26, 2004 11:25 PM (GMT)
I love it. I think it looks so sexy.
Idle_Shit - May 27, 2004 11:08 PM (GMT)
| QUOTE (Crystie @ May 26 2004, 09:29 PM) |
| i want a cartilage piercing...ear :yes: |
like this? I have it done to, It's called your tregus I do believe:
Linz - May 28, 2004 02:37 PM (GMT)
That is indeed a tregus. I think Crystie wants the top part of her cartilage pierced. Ummmm...the part that most people pierce when talking about the cartiledge. :/
Idle_Shit - May 30, 2004 11:43 PM (GMT)
my ear looks huge in a close up :yes:
Crystie - May 30, 2004 11:52 PM (GMT)
yea what linz was talkin bout...the topish part...ish. yea. but my ears are ginormous so i guess that would just draw more attention to them :unsure:
Linz - June 1, 2004 03:41 PM (GMT)
Crystie, the Cartalidge earling will not make your ear look large OR draw too much attention to them. It will depend on what kind of earling you decide to get and what kind of earing you change it to when you can. I don't want to scare you off the idea, but this piercing does take a lot of time to heal, mine took over a year, and it makes sleeping on that side nearly impossible. I love mine and am going to get another one. I just thought that was one of those things people don't warn you about before you get pierced.
Lets get back to first kisses, or maybe just kissing in general. I just odon't know how to successfully bring us back.
Crystie - June 1, 2004 08:20 PM (GMT)
yea my friend had it done and she said it didnt hurt much but it took forever to heal...but i still think it looks really sexy on like anyone.
But anyway...moving on. kissing is fun :yes:
Linz - June 2, 2004 04:55 PM (GMT)
I definately think that it is sexy on everyone. Except when people get that bump behind the piercing. That is kinda gross. But if that happens, which it might, I think that it does for a short time to almost everyone, you should put some bacitrasin on it every day before bed and when you get up, that will helpe the bump go down. :yes:
And I agree...kissing is fun. :lol: :P
Smidge - June 9, 2004 05:29 PM (GMT)
Apparently with bumpy scars you get, you're supposed to put vitamin E on the and it'll help them go down eventually. However, it's been 4 n a half months after my surgery and mine are still reallly bumpy and red. I'm too embarrassed to wear a tank top yet. :$ Good luck with the piercings. I don't have any markings on my body...and I always debate with what's sexier...total nudity..or a little bt of jewellery. Anywho, that's my bit.
saraHa
Crystie - June 9, 2004 09:26 PM (GMT)
well im sort of allergic to anything thats fake so i cant get anything from like little accessory stores or else my ear swells like crazy. i got my second hole on each ear about a year ago but they didnt swell...i want the cartilage piercing tho. alot of girls my age want belly button rings but like what happens when you get fat and you cant see your belly button anymore? :huh:
Linz - June 9, 2004 10:22 PM (GMT)
I'm not a fan of belly rings for just that reason. I would be careful where you get your cartalidge done if you are so allergic. You might be best off in an actual peircing parlor, instead of clares or somewhere like that. It is going to be more expensive though. But they will be able to put a ring in right away instead of having a stud for a few months.
Crystie - June 9, 2004 11:20 PM (GMT)
yea i got my second hole done in icing (its the same thing as claires...same people make it) but they were fine...i got my first holes done at a jeweler/ear piercing place. that was good cuz i didnt get infected or anything. :yes:
Linz - June 10, 2004 03:27 PM (GMT)
YEah, the gun is difficult because it has to be done with a stud and studs get infected easier because they are holding all that crap in. Definately go to a peircing place. And then you can kiss the person who does it because we are supposed to be talking about kissing. LOL. Don't really make out with them. :no:
Jenna - June 18, 2004 05:32 AM (GMT)
lets see my first real kiss with a guy was totally horrid i was a dorky colorgaurd flag twirler and he was in marching band i was in 8th grade and was 13 and it was total peer pressure he ended up my boyfriend for a couple of months but i always kinda felt uncomfortable with him his name was jimmy and he was a sophomore and a total loser and he used to touch me other places outside my clothes and i felt like it was against my will but was too scared to say stop it mostly i try to forget this part of my life
lets see my first kiss with a girl her name was gina so much better but i was totally wasted i think i was 21 and i was at a friends party and i met this girl and we were all talking about our sexual orientationand she said she was bi and i said i was bi and we werent very drunk yet then later when i was very drunk and more confident we were talking her back to the wall and me leaning on the wall with one hand facing her and i just leaned in and started kissing her i was so struck by how soft her lips were and how much nicer it was than kissing a guy nicer/better and we ended up on the floor at the foot of the steps and my guy friends sat down with their beers and watched it was funny she was a couple years older i think i went home with her that nite but i dont have a clear memory of what happened i think i stuck my hand in her panties but im not positive anyways next day she didnt look as pretty as i had thought she was and i dont think we ever spoke again :matrix: it was a long time before i got to kiss another girl