So.... hmm....

I cannt tell a lie... I was torn over this one for a long, long time. Assuming I was single, and assuming it was the best friend I was lusting after for like, eleven years...... *draws breath in sharply* I am not sure I would have the restraint to stay away, especially if she started making physical advances. But I really wouldn't want to jeopardize the friendship and the possibility of a relationship, if she really was curious..... so I guess I would wait and bring it up when we were sober and laugh it off if it turns out she was just drunk and rambling. I think.

Laugh and Dodge for me. Not only is it an exciting new dance move that is sure to pull crowds of admirers, but it is also what I do best.

This scenario has played out three times for me already. Frankly, I don't want to be someone's experiment. If you're curious then visit your local library, thank you!

If I wasn't friends with the person, then that is another matter.

Friendships are rad, I don't like to mix them up with sex - If I wasn't so immeasurably good at the act of love, then it might be OK, in that she would get over it within a matter of months and would eventually stop asking people why they can't be more like me.

Who had the balls to say they would just do it? LOL. I wanna know. You're my hero, I think. Cuz I keep thinking about it and I'm like.... I can't promise that I wouldn't just do it......

I picked 3. I don't think I'd be much up for laughing in that situation, see. (Not just because the shock would've floored me, either.)

So yeah, I'd say no. Not too sure how I'd feel about it though. *shrug*

I picked 1.
This has happend to me quite recently and it worked out for the okay. I wasn't drunk, my pal was. She didn't exactly say that she wanted to experiment, rather kept hinting and flirting like crazy. Her sexuality had always been a bit of a question mark anyway. I eventually told her that i was a lesbian and she didn't reply. I asked if that was okay with her and she leant in and kissed me.
Not exactly how you described it, but after the night, things returned to normal and if anything we are closer than we were. We dont talk about it much, but we joke about stuff like it alot. So...there you go. I picked number 1.

I would totally do it...so yeah i picked #1....

My philosophy:

Who cares.....the only good friends are the ones with benefits anyway :yes:
(semi-joking) :no:

I picked 3...probly cuz it has never happened to me before.

i picked number 3 also. that actually kinda happened to me the other day. one of my best friends is exploring her sexuality and we've had a lot of really intimate moments. and we were doing shots together before this semi-formal dance we went (she was my date) and things got intimate. but we refrained.
on the other hand, last year, one of my really good friends... we got really involved and ended up sleeping together, and then trying to have a relationship, which totally didn't work out. and we both got hurt pretty bad in the process, and it's taken us a long time to get over it, but we're better now. so, i don't know if i'd do it again. maybe. i don't know though. i think not... i think i've learned my lesson.

ok here we go funny thing happened... me and my gf kind of hooked up like this


It was new years eve and i threw a small get together with some friends at my house. I had liked her for a while and unknown to me she had liked me for a while too. We all get there hace some drinks and the next thing u know we have slept together... but the happy thing was that by that time we had both sobered up by then and it was a mutual thing and it has opened up a beautiful relationship that is about to hit two months.. but i picked C because in anyother situation i would not have done it, considering we all thought she was a straight arrow, and honestly i dont know what it was that made me go for her, it is strictly against policy to date straight girls... it never ends well

Sally

It is strictly against policy to even CRUSH on straight girls. Ugh, that is asking for heartache.

:( *sigh*

ditto that, darlin' -_-

I just said goodbye to my straight crush last night (she's moving to another country), and I swear for as long as I live, I will NEVER DO THAT AGAIN! Jesus, it was hard.

That happened to me once, My straight and very gorgeous best friend just climbed into my bed after a party, we were both pretty tipsy, and we went all the way, and still no weirdness between us, one of the best things I ever did I think...Got that little thing out the way...I always have crushes on straight girls, its like sods law for lesbians, the only gay girl that I personally know that I have ever had the slightest feeling for is my girlfriend...all the other girls I've wanted have been straight or the dreaded open minded...where they tease you like hell then say "I only date men."

I HATE the teasing girls. The straighties who tease and only dsleep with men. That has happened to me a handful of times. I picked number 2 cause If it's something that we can talk about later, when sober, then I would totally go for it. If i really care about someone, I won't let my feelings get in the way of a friendship...unless I generally know that they would be ok. I have a friend right now who I would love to hook up with, but she doesn't talk to her ex's cause she can't handle that. SO...I will never hook up with her, even though we both generally want to, because I refuse to loose her from my life. Le Sigh...it's a sad state of affairs. :yes:

I'm lucky most of my friends who i have slept with for boredom reasons we're still good friends, its good to get to know your friends on a higher level I think... You can know your friends in every possible way.

I'm always afriad that my friends are going to freak out on me. SO nothing "fun" like this ever happens with my firneds and me. No fun! :no:

my friend stace, shes the straightest girl i know, but one night i was satying at hers and i was asleep and her boyfriend was there and he told her to get ontop of me, and she woke me up by kissing me, that is the one time i turned one of my mates down cause it was all a show for her boyfriend... still no awkwardness.

I said 3.....because the only friends I have I am really close to, and it would just be wierd. I mean, I have had a crush on my friend for a long time, but we are too close. It wouldn't work. Not to mention people would find out, and then it would become this huge deal, and that is not something I willing to deal with at this point.

okay...so I know this happened to me with a guy...but it's sort of the same thing. he always said to everyone that he was straight...but it was too good to be true and I was dead sure he was gay even though he adamantly denied it to all of us. he's incredibly hot...nice...funny..intelligent ...etc. He slyly propositioned me one night and I admit I reallly REALLLY wanted to, but i was sure he was gay and i didn't want to confuse him anymore OR screw up our friendship. He came out to me a year later. mamma's proud o' her boy! :lol: Anyways...it's tough when it comes to screwing around with friends..but there always is th possibility that it an make your friendship stronger.

SaraHa

Yea my guy friend who is a year older then me is really cute and i did the same thing as you when he approached me. cuz he asked me out and i really knew he was gay/bi cuz it was dead obvious. he's a really nice guy but i turned him down cuz i didnt want my friendship with him to end cuz he was one of my best friends and still is. he was unhappy about it but he accepted the fact that i had reason to turn him down. about 3 months later, i became the first person ever to know that he was bi. he said he could only trust me with the secret cuz he sed he knew i wouldnt tell. it was a cool thing. i know a clea fan that i talk to on a regular basis and she had major trouble coming out so she helped him and now hes great...and with a boyfriend. he's so happy. so it was probably the right thing to do in turning him down :yes:

I am not sure why, but to your friends it is always abviouse. Ok, I came out to my friends like, 6 months ago......and it was so hard for me to do 'cause I was almost in this denial stage, I was just completly freaking out, but once I did , my friend I have known since 5th grade was like, "its about time!". I mean, I had no idea it was obviouse. But I am glad to see you helped out your friend, I guess this is a sensative subject for me because my coming out of the closet experiance is so fresh in my mind still, but I think it is cool that you supported your friend. :)