I don't care if it was with a guy, a girl, if it was regretable, your choice, whatever.... whenever it was that you consider actually losing your virginity, use that. And if you have any explaining or whatever, include it below.

I have to explain. LOL. I was in college and had just turned 19 when I did lose my virginity, to a girl that I was completely not interested in but I was rebounding from my first somewhat serious girlfriend who I thought I would actually lose my virginity to and then when I didn't, I was like, damn, I need to just get laid already! LOL. But since I was raised a Catholic, I always assumed I would be a virgin until I was married and I think that if I was straight, I might actually have remained a virgin... but maybe not. *shrugs* But when I actually was with a woman for the first time, I was very excited, very ready for it.... and it felt very natural. If I would have had the option of being with a woman before then, I would have easily done it earlier. Like I've mentioned like 100 times, I had a very insanely small hometown and knew no other lesbians. I was never friends with any other lesbians until I was 18 and in college.... So there's my story.

come on, come on everyone!!
fess up which one you were!!
i was 16, she was my second girlfriend, and she was really sweet about it. not much really to tell. i really wanted to but i was really really nervous, like i dont know why, i kept thinking i would mess up or do something wrong.
so overall it went pretty well!!

so come on everyone tell us which one u r ^ up there!!

I am one of the 17's...

Even though I hate the word... I was "deflowered" by my ex-fiance Jon Lutane. We were 17, in high school... he had been my boyfriend for 3 years already (I made him wait... HA) and we were "talking about" getting married.

Then he proposed... and we broke up... then got back together... then I found out he cheated on me and I broke it off for good. To be young again, and know what I was getting into...

still got mine ^_^

I'm one of the 16's.

I was drunk at a beach party with my best friend and we were talking about how much the party sucked, and made a deal that if neither of us picked up within two hours we would just hook up...

So, I sat up to go and we heard a voice from the party yell out something like "Hey, lets throw things at other things!" and I lay back down and said "... orrr, we could just forget the two hour thing"

There was about a week of awkwardness after that, but then everything went back to normal and we are still very close. Hoorah!

Alright alright, 17. To a guy named Micheal Redrow. He was one of the cuter guys around and we got a little drunk. We were meant to be doubledating, but neither of our girls turned up and what with the lonliness and the drink, bad things happened.
It was very regrettable, i was ready but not with him, and we havent spoken since.

First to Kate.... that is an awesome story. It is really cute. :) That must have been really cool..... On the beach, at night.... good job. LOL.

And then to Fuzzball. Allow me to quote you.

Which brings to mind the whole gender/sexual orientation questions. Was this a traditional two guys & two girls double-date and your girls didn't show so you and Mr. Micheal had a big gay orgy, lol, cuz that would be cool. LOL. Or are you a female, waiting for your female date, and then hooked up with Micheal as a lonely, drunk lesbian or as a lonely, drunk bisexual girl?

P.S. If you think I'm nosy, well I am. Read the disclaimer.

i'm one of the 17's. i lost my virginity to a guy named chris who i had been dating for not a very long time at all, which is kinda embarrassing. a few months later, we got engaged after i got pregnant and lost the baby. after i left for college, we had a real hard time being in a relationship together for a lot of different reasons. then he said and did some things that i can never forgive him for. we've talked a few times since, but i haven't talked to the guy in almost 2 years now.

and a kinda embarrassing story about it... so it was my first time and i was just a really horny kid who just really liked this guy. i didn't know what i was doing. at all. lol. so ya know, we were having sex, and he asked if i went. and i kept asking "went where?" (so embarrassing!) then he asked "did you go?" and i asked "go where? where am i going?" it was really frustrating him because he was trying to be all intimate and i was just ruining it all because i was so clueless. lol. funny, but embarrassing. :$

OMG. That is really... tragic. About becoming pregnant and losing the baby and all.... I'm sorry about that, that is soooo sad.

But the sex part is funny. What the hell was up with asking if you went? You don't GO, you COME. Dude was confused.

I totally agree, definately sorry about your loss of the baby, that must be hard for anyone of anyage, especially so young.
And Graham, depends what you class as typical, but i am a girl and therfore was as you stated

Sad, but still. Not so lonely, or at least..not for the whole 10 minutes it took for the sex to occur. It was my first time, and he was just a prat, i can't be held responsible for the length of time. Hehe, he didn't ask if i'd gone though, so i suppose that was a bonus.

Still a virgin.

I get dealt a lot of "they'd have sex with me, but I wouldn't want it" and the similar "i'd fuck them but they don't want it" hands. Life's funny like that. :rolleyes:

yeah me too...
nobody wants me...
so yeah.

Ok as yet i havent done it lol *and i doubt i myself can be deflowered, or infact deflower someone else* but LEMMING is a COMPLETELY different kettle of fish lol.

She got laid at a party... k she was rolling around the floor a la madonna screaming 'hey britney' like the freak she is... but the boys couldnt resist this innocent pile of weirdness and BOOM, 15 minutes l8er, Lem was no longer a virgin

strange girl...

Im not sure whether to congratulate her, or give her the adress of my psychologist.
I think it's the..Hey Britney that made me think "Okay, this girl needs professional help" not that i have problems with Britney, it's just the in general rolling on the floor while saying it.

thanks guys. it was really hard losing the baby, but looking back, i'm kinda glad it didn't work out. i might have been trapped in a bad relationship with a guy who wasn't great and the poor child wouldn't have been in the best environment. hey, everything works out for a reason, right?

Everything does have reasons...yes, but im still sorry to hear the news.
James-you promised you would never tell. Gah, oh well, there's my one secret gone. I have nothing to add to this, seeing as Jamie over there has already told everyone. Just pretend i said something witty and smart here instead.

I actually like my insanity. I think it gives me an edge, us unattractive people need something to draw in the ladiez, it makes people want to investigate my life further. That's the theory anyway. :yes:

I am glad you like your insanity, but does your insanity like you? have you ever sat down and made an effort? I strongly encourage you to do so - your insanity is the best friend you will ever have... mostly because it has very low standards.

;) I kid.

Back to the subject at hand, though, really.... I am positively blown away by the number of virgins on this board. Good fucking gracious. :whistle:

Wait. Not like that's a bad thing or anything... but it makes me feel awfully slutty cuz, let's face it, I'm gettin' it on a regular basis. LOL.

Yeh, I am going to have to come to you with my tales of depravity now, Graham. I've been telling some of these people certain things about my love life, and now they must all just think I'm a slapper.... or just someone who constantly talks about their conquests....

... the shame ><

Oooh, tell me all. I love a good sex story. LOL.

yeah i was pretty surprized by the number of virgins on this board too. they outnumber us graham! and no fear my friends, i will share some good sex stories soon... things are going well with my "friend" so i'm now gettin it on a regular basis too. good stories to come... B)

Yeah, this would be why I dont really like Truth or Dare. Almost always (yeah not all the time) the questions are envolved with sex or something with sexual stuff questions. :$

Alright. Well this is being completely nosy but for you virgins....

Is it a deal like what I had, where it's a small town, you aren't out and know no other lesbians to date and be with?

Or have you not met the right person?

Or are you waiting till you're older?

Or waiting for a committment?

Just curious.

i'm sorry... my mind is in the gutter and thinking about sex... oh about 85% of the time! i'm actually trying to write a paper right now but i needed to take a break because i'm thinking about my girl too much. lol. it's sad, really.

Nah it's not sad at all. It's pretty fucking fantastic, actually. I spend about.... 85% of my waking hours thinking about sex and 90% of my sleeping hours dreaming about it. But, I figure, I'm young, in my prime, have a girlie that I'm insane about... so what's the problem?

For me, I think a lot of it has to do with just being extremely insecure and scared all the time. When I was younger, anyway. Now, it's more to do with just not having opportunites - or at least not ones that I want to take advantage of.

Another thing is, I've gotten a lot more shy as I've gotten older. Like, I'm much more confident, but I'm more introverted now than I was in school. So meeting people is rough in general, for me. Let alone meeting someone I'd wanna hook up with.

So, that is my story/excuse/whatever. *nods*

I'm gonna wait till im a little older, and that i havent found the right person yet. im only 14...but i still know girls that lost their virginity at 12. and if it doesnt happen with the right person im gonna regret it...thats my theory. :/

i lost my virginity to a guy that wasn't the right guy, but i don't know if i really regret it or not. i dont think i regret it. i try to live my life without regret and instead just learn from my experiences (i'm very idealistic...) but if i could go back and rewind my life a bit, i wouldn't have slept with him. i mean, i probably would have, but much later... that night. just kidding! probably a few months later.

Ahaa. I really thought Crystie's post said "I'm gonna wait to hit it" when I was scrolling to get to it. That just made my night :) Even after I read it correctly, I was still rolling.

I really need to get glasses, I'd say. :P

Gonna wait to hit it, huh? That's classic. LOL.

For you Crys (or it might have been Crystie, I get y'all confused...) I think it is smart of you to wait. You are rather young and it is really smart to wait until you're older. I'm glad I waited until I was as old as I was... I'm not really sure that I could have handled it when I was younger than that.

That was Crystie. I'm older now than you were your first time. But really, I think it can still apply to me as well. So I'm gonna go with that. :P

>< Well, it's kinda hard to find someone when your life is All school and work. Also it is hard to meet up with someone if you are shy. I havent gone to a bar (eventhough people suggest this to me and I just look at them like they are from a different planet and that is just a completely different story). I have met females who I like and I think is kinda cute B U T (yeah but) they are straight.

So if you have any suggestions for those shy lesbians (or whatever in general) to meet up with someone...Please share! :w00t:

hehe thats funny. i mean my best friend lost her virginity at 12 i think and shes been doing that ever since then and shes my age. girls on my bus do that every weekend with their boyfriends...and when they talk about it i get kinda awkward cuz im not like that. some of the girls dont even go with their boyfriends, they just hook up with any guy they can get their hands on. now, to some guys i may look like a slut but im really not. i dont try to make guys wanna be with me or tempt them or anything, i just play it cool. id rather them fall in love with me based on my personality rather than my looks. id rather fall in love with ANYBODY based on personality. looks just dont apply to me. so until i meet that special person im gonna wait.

LOL.

I do that. LOL. Well, maybe not the tempting part but it's like. Hmm. I know I'm cute. I see people check me out. Well, guys check me out, not a lot of girls cuz I don't set off anyone's gaydar. LOL. And I don't flirt but I act really innocent and niave... I know how to use my girlishness and feminimity to my advantage. *shrugs* I don't really think it makes me a bad person. It's not like I lead them on or flirt with them or would ever do anything but I use my girlieness to my advantage, definitely.

that is the best word...i love that...gaydar hahaha. if im seriously crushing on a guy then yea i can admit to flirting a little but i dont go around to every hot guy i meet. just not like that...at all.

Nah. I'm not talking about flirting with "hot guys" or hitting on anyone... I'm talking about any kind of guy.... and just like, being cute, smiling, twirling my hair, whatever.... to cut in line, get a better parking space, get out of getting in trouble, to get the last one of something, to get free something, whatever.

God, that makes me sound awful.

But it's true... it's not like I'm leading them on or being a big slut or wanna hook up or anything.

It does sound awful.

Ohhhhhh...... I'm not a slut or a bitch or conceited or anything. I feel mean, now. Grrrr. But I mean, it's not my fault than men are such idiots that a smile and hair twirl makes them let me cut or give me free things. LOL. Not my problem.

hey its always a good tool to use. i can admit to doing that a few times. thats alright...dont worry about it, men are hopeless.

i dont like go all over guys when i flirt with them...like sometimes theyll write stuff on my books or whatever and ill get pissed and sometimes hit them or sumthin or like he makes me laugh...i come off as really innocent to some guys but other guys i come off as an evil slut...hehe. heres a quote a guy friend sed to me: "I think you give good girls a bad name" :angel: hmm but i dont ask for it...they just seem so cute and innocent to me, but still i wait for them to do somethin, ya know?

No no no. Best was when Willow from Buffy said "lesbidar". At least, that's my belief. :P

As for the whole flirting but not flirting thing.. I say, as long as nobody's getting hurt, it's all good. *nods* If ya got it, flaunt it. Right? :)