Well, I kinda like this kid in my Biology class...except there's one problem. He's a freshman. I'm a higher grade. So, our relationship would be frowned upon by a lot of people. I just got to this school, and I don't want my reputation killed by a relationship with someone I kinda like. I think he likes me, too. I've sorta been observing the signs...

He looks a me a lot during class. He asked me my name around the second week of school then scurried away (Aww. <3). Then, after that, he would always say Hi to me in the hallways...always. No one else but my close friends do that. Today in the hallway he asked, "You do know what my name is, right?" and I said, "Yeah. It's **insert name here**" Then he said, "OKay, good." and scurried away. We kinda flirted a little during homecoming, too. But, I didn't want to make too much out of it since...well...people might have seen. ._. Ahaha. During homecoming when I was trying to get pictures with my friends he kept trying to get in it, too. I thought that was adorable. <3

So...I dunno what to do exactly. I kinda like him but I don't know if I would make it a relationship...and I also don't know whether to confront him or not.

...Help? ^^;

Ah, who cares what other people think? After all, I have a bad reputation of liking older people. @@; Besides, it wouldn't really matter. Just remember people that are ten years apart (thirty for John Madden... wasn't he the guy who married someone half his age?) get married. But then again, this has nothing to do with getting married... er... whatever.

So the point is, who really cares? I think it'd be OK. But I'm not in high school...

Wait till you're sure you really like him.

;/ Kinda useless help, but don't go out with him unless you really want to

Mmmmm, go for it. ^o^

You might find a lot of happiness in the process. ^_^


Also, your reputation will barely help you in school, don't care about it. Popularity isn't really much of a thing, for you will always have friends. :3
But yeah, what SS said, make sure you like him or not.

Here's the problem with going for it...I really don't want to be hurt again. But...I really kinda like him. When I think about him I feel happy. Also, he doesn't seem like the kind of guy who would hurt me. ^^;

You guys are right about the whole reputation thing. I don't even know the names of half the people in my school...I really shouldn't care what they think of me.

Don't worry about being hurt.

You got to think on the positive side. So what if he says No, doesn't mean you can't be friend with him. ^o^

As long as you are with him, is what I would say.

But I have to worry about being hurt...I had the same state of mind you have with another crush of mine last year...and it completely crushed me at the end. I do have to worry about getting hurt. I just don't want to suffer the same way I did last year...

Hmmm, if I had the same PM, I would show you, but the thingy took it all off. . .Man, such great PMs too. . .;~;




But think about it, you want to be with him, right? If he says no, you are still friends, right? And even if he says no, it could always be "shyness"

I'm slightly worried about him saying no. What I'm really worried about is if he says yes. And, if he says yes, what are his true intentions? You never really know when it comes to guys. He could like me for my looks or he could like me for my personality. I really just don't know and it bothers me. =/ I don't know whether to take a leap or stay safe. Last time I took a leap I fell and broke my heart. D:

lol

It's the same thing for guys, I can say All genders are like that. ALL genders can either like you for your looks, or your personality.


But don't worry about it. . . In my belief, when you Like someone Physically, that is Lust. When you like someone emotionally, that is what I call love = which branches off to other parts of love. . .O.o


But it doesn't really matter, cause if he likes you for your looks, he is going to end up liking you for your personality, not through force, but becuase you are an rounded-off nice person. ^o^

But, don't have that impression. Usually, for guys, they say you can never tell if they love you or like you for your looks. When you think about it, when a guy who likes you for your looks wants to do something, they want to do it for the looks, yeh. . .But it is same with a guy who loves you, because he wants to do it because he loves you. . .

For females, they say it is mostly because they like you for your personality. . .

*Shutting up now*

Eh, you have a point. ._.;

I do?! O.o

I thought my thoughts became pointless after:
lol


Lol

So what if he's a grade less than you? That's the same as me, but it's WAY different for me.

If you ask me, you should go for him if you really like him.

More News everyone!

I'm not sure how I should interpret the signs...but I think I should just tell you them.

On Friday, at the end of our Biology class, I asked him if I could borrow his notebook so I could catch up on what I had missed the class before. He said he would lend it to me, and he did. He was a little taken back when I first asked him though. I could tell he was a bit nervous. After he gave it to me, he gave me a hug...<3

Yesterday, I saw him in the hallway and waved to him. He waved back and walked up to me. I was walking a little fast since I was in a rush, and he gave me a quick hug. I really like those hugs...he's so sweet.

Today during our study hall (spent in Biology class XD) he asked me if I wanted to work with him for our science project. I agreed (since I really didn't have a plan anyway) and we planned out things. After that study hall he gave me another hug. During the biology class later, he talked to me a lot. We sit near each other so he kept checking up on me to see if I was getting what the teacher was talking about. I kept telling him yes sincerely...it was the person I sit next to who really needed the help. XD; *shot*

After class we talked for a little bit...I can't remember about what, though...Then we walked out into the hallway together and parted ways soon after.

I remember our first hug. I don't remember what prevoked him, but he wanted to give me a hug. So, I gave it to him...and the teacher was standing right beside us. Then the teacher goes, "AWWWWW!!" all obnoxiously. In retrospect it was pretty funny. But, at the time, I wanted to hit him and say, "YOU JUST KILLED A PERFECT MOMENT WTFBBQOMG!!!"

So...I don't know what to think yet. ._.

I'll tell you something right now, some boys want nothing to do with ladies who are older then them, to make sure he's not one of those boys, ask him if he knows how old you are.

... Shut up. You have no idea what you're talking about. I know so many younger guys that are NOT like that. Daniel's not like that...


@ Sweetie: You guys are hugging!!! *aww*

horray for sharing body heat

I was thinking this was working until reading the hugs...

From my experiences, I'd say he's a bit of a pervert ;_;

and I know so many boys and girls who ARE like that.

Well, that's your problem.

I guess it's yours also.

May I add my romantic story? :D

I keep having these dreams that I'm going to marry this one girl, who's beatuful and has a great personality, which happens to be a girl I go to school with. I need a bit of a lot of advice as to how to wow her.

He knows how old I am, and he doesn't give a flying crap. In fact, we laughed about it together.

Great news! We talked on the phone together yesterday talking about our science project. He was so nervous he couldn't read anything he was trying to tell me. I told him to relax and that there wasn't anything to be nervous about, and he calmed down. <3

Today after our Biology class, we were talking by my desk like we usually do (as of Tuesday). Here's what happened when there was a quiet moment in the conversation.

Him: Doyouhaveaboyfriend?
Me: *stomache sinks* *shakes her head*
Him: Okay. Iwasjustwondering. *walks off*
Me: ...*realizes her neck is hot*

I swear I felt my stomach sink when he asked me. I was so suprised all I could do wa sshake my head. It was a really quick moment. I just kinda sat there and stared after it happened. Then the bell rang and he walked up to me and said, "Have a good rest of the day." and gave me a hug. I just just accepted it and walked off. I was just so suprised...I was thinking about all as I was walking home.

I think he might make a move next week. I wonder what my other friends will think...

=O Sweetie's getting teh boyz.

Sorry, I just HAD to say that. Anyways, he's obviously into you. And the fact that your neck was hot just adds that you like him too.

...XD

Ahh...if only I could blush. :<

You really think so? *needs to find an internet quiz to find out* XD; I'm silly like that...

...not blush? O_o

That's the way I felt when Daniel found out that we both like each other. My sister asked me why my face was so red... Same with my friend when she found out a few days ago.

Nope, I can't blush. My cheeks get pink when I'm working out. But, that's about it.

Awww~!

That's... Interesting.

*weird blush*

XD; I know. It has it's perks and downfalls, though.

Awwww! Sweetie, that just sounds so cute. Good luck!

Hey, I know this sounds really weird... But can you send me the link of the quiz when you find it?

*lost the link* *loses* D:

Well...I've been thinking really hard about it...and I definetly don't think I'm going to let anything happen between us. I'm just not ready to get into a romantic relationship. Plus, all of my friends don't approve of him. If I were to get hurt then they would probably tell me how wrong I was about dating him instead of helping me out.

...He's such a sweetheart...

In Biology today, we were doing a lab. I had by labcoat on, but I forgot my goggles. So, he comes up to me and waves his goggles in front of him. So, I reach out and say, "Wow...thanks." and he says, "Oh, these are mine, but I can get your's for you." So I said, "That'd be nice. Thank you." So, he goes to get my goggles, comes back, hands them to me and says, "Here, we wouldn't want those pretty eyes of yours to get hurt." and he walks away.

...No guy has ever said anything like that to be before...

...I'm not sure if my feelings are love or flattery...

GOD D***IT I SLIPPED! D8

He asked me to go out with him on Halloween and I said yes. DX I don't want to re-live it so no details right now. All I know is that right now I want to break up with him. He tries WAY to hard to impress me to the point where he's acting like a complete and total moron! On top of which things between us are way to akward. DDDX

Here's an example. While we were in class one day, we watched a pretty crappy movie. Then at the end when they were doing bloopers and credits, I said aloud, "I'm waiting for a decent blooper." and someone behind me said, "The entire movie was a blooper." and I LoLed. Then he calls my name, I looked over at him, and he says, "The entire movie was a blooper."

...Yeah.

Here's another thing: when we hug, he hugs me like I have a disease or something. It's as if he's all, "Eeehhhh..." and hugs me like if he hugs too hard then he'll crush me. Plus, he kisses me where a guy's sideburns are. DX It's too close to the ear, and it's waaay too soon. AHHHH!! D8

Three words:

Way to go D:

jk

Dood, that's exactly how my mom's new boyfriend is like. He tries WAY too hard to impress my mom and is always trying to agree with us, no matter what we're talking about. =>>=

He's just trying to get your attention.

He wants to impress his friends.

I know a girl like that who does that to me. She kisses me every time I see her, yet I don't go out with her or even hug her back >< It'll sink in that she's annoying pretty soon.

If I ever let something as stupid as grade level get in the way of love... well... I wouldn't quite be the person I am, no?

I'm past the whole grade level thing. Now it's his personality. D:

How does he want to impress his friends? He has none as far as I know, and he never runs off to anyone all excitedly after he hugs me.

It seems like he's the type to do that. He probably tells his friends after you're gone