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UltraByte - September 22, 2006 09:37 PM (GMT)
Okay, I'm really just looking for someone to talk to, and hopefully you people will take this topic seriously.

There's this guy I like in Japanese... He's funny, smart, and cute. But, he's popular and I don't think he likes me. It really bugs me, because I like him a LOT, and he doesn't seem to notice. Also, my two best friends have a relationship with a guy, and I feel jealous/lonely...

What should I do?

Kero - September 22, 2006 09:57 PM (GMT)
QUOTE (UltraByte @ Sep 22 2006, 05:37 PM)
Okay, I'm really just looking for someone to talk to, and hopefully you people will take this topic seriously.

There's this guy I like in Japanese... He's funny, smart, and cute. But, he's popular and I don't think he likes me. It really bugs me, because I like him a LOT, and he doesn't seem to notice. Also, my two best friends have a relationship with a guy, and I feel jealous/lonely...

What should I do?

Try and make some friends with him before you ask him if he likes you. Boyfriends are bitches sometimes, but they're worth it; at least when you set your sights on the right one.

Rinoa - September 22, 2006 11:14 PM (GMT)
I think the curse word you said relates to girls, Kero, and I'm afraid boys aren't girls.

There are two somewhat cute guys in our class. I don't like them a lot, but I did feel jealous when one asked my friend out. They're really nice to me though.

Who knows? If you're lucky, he may be yours. Talk with him. Ask him to a dance. Socialize more.

Sweetie - September 23, 2006 01:13 AM (GMT)
I think someone has an interest in me. When we first met he was uber nervous and he was really quiet. XD I dunno...

My advice to you? Go for him while you have the chance.

Kero - September 23, 2006 07:05 PM (GMT)
QUOTE (Rinoa @ Sep 22 2006, 07:14 PM)
I think the curse word you said relates to girls, Kero, and I'm afraid boys aren't girls.

I beg to differ. ;P

UltraByte - September 25, 2006 09:43 PM (GMT)
QUOTE (Sweetie @ Sep 22 2006, 08:13 PM)
My advice to you? Go for him while you have the chance.

Yeah, but he's popular... He just sees me as the classes Japanese Flash/ Stick Figure artist...

BTW, the ending to my latest project:

http://media.putfile.com/Japanese-Part-Deux-Ending

Mariene - September 26, 2006 07:20 PM (GMT)
Then try to think of a way to be more than a Japanese Flash/ Stick Figure artist in his eyes. You have to show more of who you really are unless your already doing that. I don't even think I know what I'm talking about. Find out if he already likes anyone or not.

Rinoa - September 26, 2006 07:43 PM (GMT)
Yes, before your try getting your hands on him, you oughta figure out if he has a girlfriend or not. Popular people usually always have girlfriends or boyfriends. And maybe try whooing him. Smile. Look at him and wave. Get his attention. Maybe get a makeover. Maybe you could even try being popular. But be nice, too.

And smiling and speaking up really does help.

Kiao - September 26, 2006 08:45 PM (GMT)
Don't let him even CONSIDER the fact that you like him. Because if he does, he'll most likely use it to his advantage to get you to do stuff for him like drastically change your appearance/personality/intelligence.

Basically, if you act cold enough around him, but not TOO cold, maybe with a SLIGHT change in appearance or clothing (don't try to be TOO materialistic or he'll consider you to be the shallow end of the pool), he'll consider you hard to get, which will light sparks of interest. Keep this up, and eventually it'll bloom into full-fledged attraction, at which point you can notice this and then use it to your advantage. However, don't let the cold warm up, or else he'll wise up and probably won't like you.

Or, you COULD alter your appearance/personality, but very very slowly over a long period of time, just so your friends and family can wise up to the change and they won't be all alienated when you get from point A to point B. Considering that, you don't want to alter yourself into something that you, your family or your friends hate, or something that he hates. If you find that you're acting this stuff out, and you desperately crazy like him, self-hypnotise yourself by listening to a recording of your voice saying something along the lines of 'I am a [goth/prep/etc here] and I like [goth/prep/etc-based activities]' over and over again while you sleep and eventually your mind will absorb it and you will become a goth/prep/etc.

DO NOT BE AN OBNOXIOUS FLIRT, GUYS HATE IT AND WILL THINK YOU'RE JUST MESSING WITH THEM AND WILL PROBABLY NOT LIKE YOU.

But yeah, that's basically all I can think of.

Rinoa - September 27, 2006 12:05 AM (GMT)
QUOTE (Kiao @ Sep 26 2006, 03:45 PM)
Don't let him even CONSIDER the fact that you like him. Because if he does, he'll most likely use it to his advantage to get you to do stuff for him like drastically change your appearance/personality/intelligence.

Basically, if you act cold enough around him, but not TOO cold, maybe with a SLIGHT change in appearance or clothing (don't try to be TOO materialistic or he'll consider you to be the shallow end of the pool), he'll consider you hard to get, which will light sparks of interest. Keep this up, and eventually it'll bloom into full-fledged attraction, at which point you can notice this and then use it to your advantage. However, don't let the cold warm up, or else he'll wise up and probably won't like you.

Or, you COULD alter your appearance/personality, but very very slowly over a long period of time, just so your friends and family can wise up to the change and they won't be all alienated when you get from point A to point B. Considering that, you don't want to alter yourself into something that you, your family or your friends hate, or something that he hates. If you find that you're acting this stuff out, and you desperately crazy like him, self-hypnotise yourself by listening to a recording of your voice saying something along the lines of 'I am a [goth/prep/etc here] and I like [goth/prep/etc-based activities]' over and over again while you sleep and eventually your mind will absorb it and you will become a goth/prep/etc.

DO NOT BE AN OBNOXIOUS FLIRT, GUYS HATE IT AND WILL THINK YOU'RE JUST MESSING WITH THEM AND WILL PROBABLY NOT LIKE YOU.

But yeah, that's basically all I can think of.

Something that I can agree on with Kiao. Something that I understand and do not consider sarcastic! YAY.

That was good advice. But uh. . .who would want to go goth? That's a little. . .wierd.

Kiao - September 28, 2006 12:30 AM (GMT)
Why do people go emo? It's the same basic idea.

Rinoa - September 28, 2006 06:53 PM (GMT)
QUOTE (Kiao @ Sep 27 2006, 07:30 PM)
Why do people go emo? It's the same basic idea.

Emo's, rejects, and goths are kind of considered the same things, correct? I can understand rejects. But maybe goths go goth because they think of it as a trend or...they've experienced a trouble and just shut down their life and went all mean about it.

Kiao - September 28, 2006 07:09 PM (GMT)
Rejects usually aren't gothic and or emo, but the real reason they do it is because they want attention from someone/something.

Rinoa - September 28, 2006 07:22 PM (GMT)
QUOTE (Kiao @ Sep 28 2006, 02:09 PM)
Rejects usually aren't gothic and or emo, but the real reason they do it is because they want attention from someone/something.

Oh. Thank you for teaching me that. But isn't that an odd way of attention? I would rather stand out in my own way, a different way that doesn't involve unpopularity or embarressment or staring eyes.

DarkCelestialDragon the Echidna - September 28, 2006 11:02 PM (GMT)
QUOTE (Rinoa @ Sep 28 2006, 02:22 PM)
QUOTE (Kiao @ Sep 28 2006, 02:09 PM)
Rejects usually aren't gothic and or emo, but the real reason they do it is because they want attention from someone/something.

Oh. Thank you for teaching me that. But isn't that an odd way of attention? I would rather stand out in my own way, a different way that doesn't involve unpopularity or embarressment or staring eyes.

It may be odd to you, but I've seen many people do that. They want sympathy from others/other people to feel sorry for them.

Peaches - September 29, 2006 02:27 AM (GMT)
QUOTE (Sweetie @ Sep 22 2006, 05:13 PM)
I think someone has an interest in me. When we first met he was uber nervous and he was really quiet. XD I dunno...

Teh luckyz. I'm ugly... I think the only person who even hinted that they liked me was the kid who sits across from me. He once said "You sorta look like my girlfriend," and Hedwig was cracking up. (Yeah, he's ten or something and he claims he had a girlfriend... riiight. >_>) But he totally hates me now because I play tricks on him all the time. xD

@Ultra: Saying hi once in a while is good, I guess. I'm not exactly the matchmaker around here, though. xD

Mariene - September 29, 2006 07:15 PM (GMT)
QUOTE (Peaches @ Sep 28 2006, 09:27 PM)
QUOTE (Sweetie @ Sep 22 2006, 05:13 PM)
I think someone has an interest in me. When we first met he was uber nervous and he was really quiet. XD I dunno...

Teh luckyz. I'm ugly... I think the only person who even hinted that they liked me was the kid who sits across from me. He once said "You sorta look like my girlfriend," and Hedwig was cracking up. (Yeah, he's ten or something and he claims he had a girlfriend... riiight. >_>) But he totally hates me now because I play tricks on him all the time. xD

@Ultra: Saying hi once in a while is good, I guess. I'm not exactly the matchmaker around here, though. xD

Peaches, I'm not sure what you look like, but I believe your not ugly. Your just thinking that your ugly because other kids say that you are. Just ignore the criticisms that they give you.

I'm not sure what I'm even saying but, just don't be put down by those other kids.

Rinoa - September 29, 2006 07:28 PM (GMT)
Real beauty is formed by how you act.

RenzoZach - September 29, 2006 11:15 PM (GMT)
QUOTE (Peaches @ Sep 28 2006, 09:27 PM)
QUOTE (Sweetie @ Sep 22 2006, 05:13 PM)
I think someone has an interest in me. When we first met he was uber nervous and he was really quiet. XD I dunno...

Teh luckyz. I'm ugly... I think the only person who even hinted that they liked me was the kid who sits across from me. He once said "You sorta look like my girlfriend," and Hedwig was cracking up. (Yeah, he's ten or something and he claims he had a girlfriend... riiight. >_>) But he totally hates me now because I play tricks on him all the time. xD

@Ultra: Saying hi once in a while is good, I guess. I'm not exactly the matchmaker around here, though. xD

I feel for you. Nobody ever calls me ugly but, I think I am. I've only ever had one girlfriend, and she left me for the person who is now my best friend. c:>.<

Peaches - October 2, 2006 02:29 AM (GMT)
QUOTE (RenzoZach @ Sep 29 2006, 03:15 PM)
QUOTE (Peaches @ Sep 28 2006, 09:27 PM)
QUOTE (Sweetie @ Sep 22 2006, 05:13 PM)
I think someone has an interest in me. When we first met he was uber nervous and he was really quiet. XD I dunno...

Teh luckyz. I'm ugly... I think the only person who even hinted that they liked me was the kid who sits across from me. He once said "You sorta look like my girlfriend," and Hedwig was cracking up. (Yeah, he's ten or something and he claims he had a girlfriend... riiight. >_>) But he totally hates me now because I play tricks on him all the time. xD

@Ultra: Saying hi once in a while is good, I guess. I'm not exactly the matchmaker around here, though. xD

I feel for you. Nobody ever calls me ugly but, I think I am. I've only ever had one girlfriend, and she left me for the person who is now my best friend. c:>.<

That stinks. :< My best friend is soooo pretty. (I'm talking about Crazy Cat, just so you peoples know) Almost every boy in the entire fifth grade has a crush on her.

@Mariene: Thanks. I'll admit I think I'm much prettier that I used to be. I think the major problem is my teeth. They're really yellow. Not super yellow, like "ZOMG, sick!", but I'm hoping to get my teeth whitened or something. There's also a tooth that's way out of line, and then there's the braces... @@; Tommorow I'm getting something called a MARA device put on. I'm really nervous...

UltraByte - October 2, 2006 10:07 PM (GMT)
QUOTE (Kiao @ Sep 26 2006, 03:45 PM)
Don't let him even CONSIDER the fact that you like him. Because if he does, he'll most likely use it to his advantage to get you to do stuff for him like drastically change your appearance/personality/intelligence.

Basically, if you act cold enough around him, but not TOO cold, maybe with a SLIGHT change in appearance or clothing (don't try to be TOO materialistic or he'll consider you to be the shallow end of the pool), he'll consider you hard to get, which will light sparks of interest. Keep this up, and eventually it'll bloom into full-fledged attraction, at which point you can notice this and then use it to your advantage. However, don't let the cold warm up, or else he'll wise up and probably won't like you.

Or, you COULD alter your appearance/personality, but very very slowly over a long period of time, just so your friends and family can wise up to the change and they won't be all alienated when you get from point A to point B. Considering that, you don't want to alter yourself into something that you, your family or your friends hate, or something that he hates. If you find that you're acting this stuff out, and you desperately crazy like him, self-hypnotise yourself by listening to a recording of your voice saying something along the lines of 'I am a [goth/prep/etc here] and I like [goth/prep/etc-based activities]' over and over again while you sleep and eventually your mind will absorb it and you will become a goth/prep/etc.

DO NOT BE AN OBNOXIOUS FLIRT, GUYS HATE IT AND WILL THINK YOU'RE JUST MESSING WITH THEM AND WILL PROBABLY NOT LIKE YOU.

But yeah, that's basically all I can think of.

O...kay... Thanks, but I'm pretty sure he only thinks of me as a friend. BTW, you guys are the only ones who know I like him, except my friend, but she thinks he isn't attractive... -_-

RenzoZach - October 2, 2006 11:08 PM (GMT)
hmmm... there's an idea. ask your friend for advice what to do instead of people on the internet who you don't even know. exeption on anybody you might know before they joined.

ultimate devil chao - October 23, 2006 10:11 PM (GMT)
no offense to anybody on here.

UltraByte - October 23, 2006 10:30 PM (GMT)
Um, yeah. I'm kinda over him now, so... Yeah. You don't have to post anymore.

Sweetie - October 23, 2006 10:33 PM (GMT)
*busts in with a tazor* Am I too late? ._.;

...*loses*




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